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RockObsessed
December 7th, 2012, 05:03 PM
Okay so there's this guy that I really like and I don't know how to approach him. Like at all. I know this is all cliche and stuff but I'm just too shy! I had 3 previous boyfriends and they asked me out because I told them I liked them but that was when I was younger and had more confidence. Now before you reply saying that I should just be confident and talk to him, I should let you guys in on some things:

1) He is extremely quiet. Like he's one of those quiet, shy foreign guys. (He's from Burma, by the way)
2) He's in only one of my classes so...yea.
3) I have zero self-confidence. Like none. I'm not even kidding.
4) I am absolutely TERRIFIED of being rejected because I will just curl up in a ball in the corner of my room, embarrassed and wishing that I didn't exist.

I mean, if he doesn't want to go out with me, I would like to be his friend. He seems like a really nice and cool guy. He's also really athletic and plays soccer. Please, please, please, PLEASE help me out here because it is KILLING me! >.<

RCT109
December 7th, 2012, 05:14 PM
katlin, take it from a guy. ou seem like a super nice person and if hes shy that what he needs. now im not saying go up and talk to him right away. just get comfertable around him and then go ask him. then if he does say no then see if yall could be friends


if you need any thing else just let me know
shawn

Mike753
December 8th, 2012, 04:26 AM
Try to ask him after school or something? Just don't do it around a bunch of people if you (and him) are shy. I was really shy in school and had no confidence and it's funny because I left many opportunities because I was too scared to ask things like what you're wanting to. Remember, time's not on your side, so make use of what you have ^^

Abyssal Echo
December 8th, 2012, 04:31 AM
just say hi and introduce yourself see where it goes from there