Why am i unable to approach?

[Forsakenbymyself]

I mean, i really have no idea on how to approach a girl.....i just think i am too ugly to chat with cute girls. Also, how do i keep conversation going? I am an introvert and i would like to recevie some tips....

[RCT109]

first of all try getting a friend to be a wing man
and then take it from there

[RockObsessed]

Let start off by saying this: There will ALWAYS be at least one girl who totally approachable and are willing to start a conversation. In my school, that's me. :P Now to approach a girl, you have to be casual and just look like your a fun guy. If you know they like something for example sports, you can ask what sport they like to watch or play. If they like video games (like me :D) then ask them what games they play. Just be cool and casual. If they walk away or something, don't take it personally or let it get you down. Also, like what roby said, you should get a friend to help you out. :)

[Stronk Serb]

Ok, this is for real, never call yourslef ugly or fat, call yourself sexy and attractive, if YOU know that you are sexy, no one else needs to tell you that. That will bolster your confidence. Do not talk if you feel nervous, if you can, hide it (like I do), and be casual and funny (all guys are in their own way).

[MichaelJ]

I have exactly the same problem, I feel for you mate. Just try take it slow, act casual, laugh and bring up topics about what's going on around you or something relevant

hope this helps

[thatguywhosaysEH]

Im wodering the exact same thing, and I feel the same way. I just think I'm too ugly and nerdy that no girl would bother with me

[DerBear]

I mean, i really have no idea on how to approach a girl.....i just think i am too ugly to chat with cute girls. Also, how do i keep conversation going? I am an introvert and i would like to recevie some tips....

Im wodering the exact same thing, and I feel the same way. I just think I'm too ugly and nerdy that no girl would bother with me

Well both of you shouldn't think you are too ugly to chat with girls.

The main way to keep a conversation going is to talk to her about things you'll know she might like. For example TV programs, school, friends, general gossip. You want to become friends at first and then go onto asking her out. So focus on just chatting about general stuff and at least form a friendship of which you can then build on, into a relationship at some point.

[thatguywhosaysEH]

Well both of you shouldn't think you are too ugly to chat with girls.

The main way to keep a conversation going is to talk to her about things you'll know she might like. For example TV programs, school, friends, general gossip. You want to become friends at first and then go onto asking her out. So focus on just chatting about general stuff and at least form a friendship of which you can then build on, into a relationship at some point.

The problem that arises is when you do not share many interests with people in general. I have never met a girl who likes more than one of the following things I do: the comedy/ satire I do, is interested in the same movies/books etc I am, can have a conversation that is about some world conflict or scientific matter, knows how to play the game chess, or that doesn't require me to reword things so they can understand it. And top of that being known as a nerd and getting frequently bullied doesn't help either. Because at the end of the day, getting rejected is just one more thing for others to laugh at you about. And how exactly would I start a conversation with said girl. What would I say that showed I am interested, or at least prove there's more to me than "that kid who's good at math"

[Forsakenbymyself]

The problem that arises is when you do not share many interests with people in general. I have never met a girl who likes more than one of the following things I do: the comedy/ satire I do, is interested in the same movies/books etc I am, can have a conversation that is about some world conflict or scientific matter, knows how to play the game chess, or that doesn't require me to reword things so they can understand it.

^this.

Also, the girls i liek are a lot nicer than i am....how can i hope they like me?
Moreover, they always go around i groups, and i don't really have friends, so it's even harder to try to approach them....

[thatguywhosaysEH]

It's so true though. And i second the not many friends statement :(

[AnjoDude]

I can't really tell you how because everyone has a special way of doing things. But what I did to make myself approachable and approach people is I created this persona called 'The Suit'. This persona is full of confidence. It's also funny and very charming. I combined all my favourite men together like Barney Stinson, James Bond, Jim Carrey... you get the point (: So I suggest creating a persona.