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david_1994
October 9th, 2007, 09:52 AM
Hi, i dont know how to word it, ok dont alugh at this coz i dont know how to properly put it
Well
are you straight if you are NOT attrackted to womes appearence but are emotionally.
And does it make you gay if you are attrackted to mens appearance but not emotionally

coz this is how i fel at the moment!

Maverick
October 9th, 2007, 10:31 AM
Being straight is being emotionally and physically attracted to the opposite sex. Being gay is being emotionally and physically attracted to the same sex.

The way you're feeling now is completely normal and a lot of guys go through this. As you get older your sexuality will become more defined but if you're attracted to women emotionally then you're straight.

Seeing from your birthdate (1994) you're probably around 13? It's young to be trying to figure out your sexuality because hormones will confuse things. Don't worry about it too much. It's normal.

david_1994
October 9th, 2007, 01:16 PM
no im not at all attracted to females appearance but i am to mens,and the other way round for emotional.
Does this first make sence and second mean im gay or bi? or straight?

Maverick
October 9th, 2007, 01:35 PM
I know what you meant. Sexuality is confusing at a young age. Don't worry about labeling yourself just yet. It all comes clearer as you get older.

Underground_Network
October 9th, 2007, 02:53 PM
As Anthony said, you have to wait, you don't know your sexuality right away. It can get very confusing, you and I both don't have a clue what sexuality you are, yet. Eventually there will be signs and you will discover what you truly are, but just :inappropriate: it, give it some time, you're still way too young to know you're true sexuality.

Serenity
October 9th, 2007, 05:59 PM
Don't worry about labeling yourself just yet.

And that right there, I think, is the real nitty-gritty answer. There's way too much going on in your body and your mind right now for you to be any one thing- stop worrying so much about boxing yourself in with an orientation, rather focus more on being free to experiment and discover your sexuality!

drcarter24
October 10th, 2007, 02:17 AM
Ummm no lol...maybe the girls that you see just aren't mentally pleasing right now...or at all...once you get older and meet new girls you will like them...and it is not gay to think another guy is "handsome" lol they preps in my school do it and say it all the time...

david_1994
October 10th, 2007, 11:03 AM
Ummm no lol...maybe the girls that you see just aren't mentally pleasing right now...or at all...once you get older and meet new girls you will like them...and it is not gay to think another guy is "handsome" lol they preps in my school do it and say it all the time...

i have seen pics of girls on the internet, none of them mentally please me as you put it, but like other people have sayed it doesnt what people look like, its who they are! So i believ i am straight or at lease i currently think that. It doesnt matter that i like the mens appearence, because that doesnt matter. ive now realised that im emotionally if not physically attracted to women!!!!