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ackmedslayer556
December 6th, 2012, 01:31 AM
ok so for those who dont already know my girlfriend is ackmedsgirl666 and which therefore know pretty much all about our relationship. well this is the point it has come to................

recently she has decided to believe in god which is great because it will help her get her dad back in her life. but her dad wont have any part of her unless she dumps me.......... plus on top of that she also still has feelings for two other ppl(cody and he/she) this is making things very hard for me to live with. she is very confused on what she wants and iv done all i can to try and help her. now at this point she may be having my baby which makes it hard for her to break up with me.......... i need you guys help for some advice on how i can bring her out of her confusion and help her make a choice on who she wants to be with.


now there is another problem that if we break she still wants me to live with her and help her out money wise and shit....... but the thing is that idk if i can do that cause ik i will only give her problems in future relationships she has because i am still deeply in love with her.

so at this point idk what to do anymore and i need your help with all of this guys. what do i do to help her and keep her from dumping me????????????????????????

CharlieHorse
December 6th, 2012, 01:40 AM
Did you have a sit down to talk to her?

ackmedslayer556
December 6th, 2012, 02:31 AM
Did you have a sit down to talk to her?

um..... yeah thats what iv done many times but im all out of ideas. hens why im turning to vt for help dude

Stronk Serb
December 6th, 2012, 03:56 PM
Honestly, I think that right now you are more important to her then her dad, just make sure she gets it, it is important especially if she is having your baby. Her dad does not like her because she is not a Christian and because she is with you? Honestly that does not sound like a good dad at all, my parents would not care even if I worship Satan (which I do not, lawl) he is pretty much enforcing his will upon her, which a parent should not do. She needs to learn that a parent's love is unconditional, no things like this where her dad wants her to change religion and break up with you. That is sort of a blackmail, I know that she will not like it if she sees this post, but I do not care, this is sort of an ugly truth. I took a bit too harsh punishments from my parents sometimes, but I never questioned their unconditional love. She has your uncondditional love, you love her no matter what, but her dad is like "I will love you if you are a Christian and if you dump that asshole." , she should not bother with him.

ackmedslayer556
December 7th, 2012, 05:31 PM
Honestly, I think that right now you are more important to her then her dad, just make sure she gets it, it is important especially if she is having your baby. Her dad does not like her because she is not a Christian and because she is with you? Honestly that does not sound like a good dad at all, my parents would not care even if I worship Satan (which I do not, lawl) he is pretty much enforcing his will upon her, which a parent should not do. She needs to learn that a parent's love is unconditional, no things like this where her dad wants her to change religion and break up with you. That is sort of a blackmail, I know that she will not like it if she sees this post, but I do not care, this is sort of an ugly truth. I took a bit too harsh punishments from my parents sometimes, but I never questioned their unconditional love. She has your uncondditional love, you love her no matter what, but her dad is like "I will love you if you are a Christian and if you dump that asshole." , she should not bother with him.






ok well for one she will not be pissed but thank you maybe she will now understand better what i was trying to saw to her after she reads this.

and i am going to rep u for this man cause this is i would say is the best advice iv gotten on here