need advice bad

[scout417]

well long story short their is this girl i like at school but im affriad to ask her out because im good friends with her. i think i might be to good of friends and have passed the friend zone. one of my biggest fears me asking her and getting rejected or she will take it as joke. plus i don't know how to ask her im despriate for advice and think im to old shes 13 and im 14 please reply with tips :wub:

[Enthusiast]

There's only a one year discrepancy, you're definitely not too old.

When asking someone out, it's often easiest to start with a school dance. If you ask her to one of those, people won't think of her as your love interest (maybe embarrassing for you) but rather as just someone to go to the dance with, a commodity. And we all know what happens at school dances, just grind the shit out of her.

Alternatively, if you have no school dances (but also a good idea) is to get in with her crowd of friends. If she has male friends, try to get chatting with them, sit with them at lunch, which will in turn bring you closer to her socially. Wear some nice clothes, too. Get some tight or slim pants, if you think that works on you, I know it does on me. Haircut and sexy clothes to get yourself a bit more on her radar.
BUT, the bottom line is that you CANNOT be afraid of rejection. If you come off as too shy, nervous, etc. there's a chance you may not be accepted. She will find it awkward to have this blubbering mass in front of her. All this stuff has worked for me, and I've found it mainly to be true for many of my friends as well, but I don't know you at all so can't be sure.

[jayboy671]

if you like her then give it a shot everyone is scared of rejection just ask her how she would be wanted to be asked out dont just pull her to the side and ask her do it good

[RCT109]

Chase,

I was in the same situation. It turned out I waited to long. As for how to ask, get her alone and set a serious tone to it. the way I do it is by just tell her we need to talk and then my voice kinda softens up and it takes me a while to say it. But all in all just set the tone and then ask because the worst thing she could say is no

Hope I helped
Shawn

PS Feel free to pm me if you need any more advice

[its.me.akshay]

dude... Try her nah?? If u think shell accept you.. Then give it a try.. But if you think it would affect ure friendship.. Try swallowing that... Or make her to love you first...