Considered sex?

[Tyler44441]

So today, a friend and I were messing around in his room when things got a little crazy. He started to put his hand down my pants and so did I. We were kind of "daring" each other to see who would go further. Eventually, my friend pulls my penis out and starts sucking until I cum, so I return the favor. Would you consider this having sex? I mean, I've never done anything like this and I didn't even know he felt that way about me, or if he even does.

[Lost in the Echo]

Yes, that is considered "oral sex" .

[Backflipboy]

It isn't sex, (as sexual intercourse is considered) it is sexual contact.

[Tyler44441]

I guess what I meant to say was, is it considered loosing your verginity?

[Lost in the Echo]

I guess what I meant to say was, is it considered loosing your verginity?

No, people get the words sex and virginity mixed up sometimes.
The only way you lose your virginity is by having sexual intercourse ( you penetrating someone with your penis, or someone penetrating you with their penis ).
Only vaginal or anal sex counts as losing your virginity.
So yes, you had sex ( oral ).
But no, you didn't lose your virginity because you and your friend did not engage in anal sex.

[Stryker125]

Nah, it's just a blowjob. Sure, you lost your "blowjob virginity", but as far as losing your actual virginity, I don't think blowjobs really count.

[Abyssal Echo]

according to Pres Clinton and Websters dictionary no you didn't have SEX . it is called Oral Sex which is sexual contact. so face it dude penetration is penetration. sorry to say dude ur virginity is gone. I lost mine the same way to a friend of mine.

[Tyler44441]

Oh, I don't care if I lost or not. I just wasn't sure if it meant it or not.

[Aajj333]

No, I would consider anal having sex but not bj's

[superstarB]

Sexual contact but not full on sex

[Backflipboy]

You are still a virgin, you haven't had penetrative sex. Oral sex technically isn't sex, as I said before it is sexual contact.

[mynameisJ]

Anal would be sex. Hj or bj would just be called "fun"

[Lost in the Echo]

You are still a virgin, you haven't had penetrative sex. Oral sex technically isn't sex, as I said before it is sexual contact.

Oral sex is sex, the term "oral SEX" is pretty self-explanatory :P

OP, yes you're still a virgin.
Losing your virginity is when you have sexual intercourse with somebody ( anal or vaginal sex ).

[Backflipboy]

Oral sex is sex, the term "oral SEX" is pretty self-explanatory :P

It isn't, you lose your virginity by having 'sex'. You don't consider oral sex to be a way of losing your virginity, therefore penetrative (anal or vaginal) sex is actually 'sex'. Would you consider a handjob to be sex as well?

Any act of oral "sex" or penile/vaginal stimulation without penile penetration is sexual contact. Jeremy Kyle says this all the time...

[sdude]

I think it changes you to be "sexually active" which means, you may technically still be a virgin, but you HAVE opened up yourself to the possibilities of some sexual diseases, so far beyond a "handjob"...Not meant to scare you, just be informed of what you are risking...

[darthearth]

Most people, when using the word "sex" by itself, are referring to anal (if two guys) or vaginal (guy/girl). When most want to refer to what you did, they say "oral sex". Most, if not all people, use the term "virginity" in reference to anal or vaginal sex. Remember, language is just a tool we use to describe things. I don't know if there is a much more productive way of answering except to state how most people seem to use the terms.

[Trinity_15]

i dont consider this as sex, to me sex has to be anal or vaginal, i dont consider head or hand as sex.

[Aaron Y]

That is still a type of sex- oral sex

[Jakeisamazing]

You're virgin, because there was no penetration. You still did a form of sex though.

[HelloKittyHeartBeats]

I guess so since you're a dude. But really it shouldn't count till you put it in somewhere. :D

[ULeon]

you technically had oral sex...
did you loos your virginity, that more of an opiniative question, some people may say yes others may say no..

[Sean4U]

oral sex is just that "oral sex" ... no you didn't loose your virginity as others have said cause there was no penetration into you or by you ....

[Canadian Dream]

Yeah, it's considered sex. It's a kind called oral.

[highschooler]

Yes you've had sex, no you haven't lost your virginity.

Also, it sounds as if you we're experimenting, and I personally feel that to truly lose your virginity, you have to be having sex for the purpose of having sex, not just experimenting. But that's just me.

[Danny_boi 16]

No, I would consider anal having sex but not bj's

i agree. Your thing needed to penetrate something or the other way around.

[Straya]

No you still have your virginity

[Matt_is_Awesome]

I don't consider oral sex like a real sex so ur a virgin if that's what ur asking

[The_Survivor]

That's oral sex.

[Jmann]

You had oral sex, but it really isnt laid out in terms of actual sex. Don't have sex until you have lost your virginity with someone special but yeah.

[WonderTastic]

I say it was a fun experience and take it from there. If you both want to make it more than make it more. I am trying to hold out till marriage but I did say that when I'm in a relationship I have rules.

3 months handjobs & or fingering
6 months oral sex
Then when finally married sex. So in turn I wouldn't consider that so much as sex but a sexual act.