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[gymnastgirl]

I know how every dad is concerned about there daughter dating and all that stuff. I totaly understand where they are coming from. but im 13 and in 8th grade and theres kids in grades below me kissing! should i be concerned or just let it go?! Please respond wuickly!

[Elysium]

What does it matter what other people are doing? What matters is what you feel is comfortable and what you want and when it's right for you. Don't let anybody else affect you. There are kids two grades below me who are making out and I've never been on a real date or had a first kiss. Things will come to you in time when you're ready. Don't feel pressured by what other people are doing.

Also, I might add that you're younger than me, and I had similar concerns when I was in your position. The best thing I learned is that other people really honestly do not matter.

[gymnastgirl]

Ok thanks your totaly right I do feel pressured but know I know to do it when the time is right!(: message me sometime!

[Ryhanna]

Don't stress about it. Right now, having a relationship might seem like the best thing in the world, but at your age it's all superficial and drama. Everyone's just trying to feel more grown up by dating, and their hearts usually aren't really in it.

Wait until somebody you care about comes along.