My immigrated friend

[Caver]

:( So upset. My friend who has recently immigrated to Spain; I miss him loads, we contact via facebook but lately I been putting Hi to him, and he says sorry cant talk busy then goes offline. He's recently got a girlfriend (Not that I wanted to date him anyway) But I miss talking to him. :l
Is he really busy or trying to avoid me?

[Gandalf]

:( So upset. My friend who has recently immigrated to Spain; I miss him loads, we contact via facebook but lately I been putting Hi to him, and he says sorry cant talk busy then goes offline. He's recently got a girlfriend (Not that I wanted to date him anyway) But I miss talking to him. :l
Is he really busy or trying to avoid me?

I would be straight up and ask him why he suddenley goes offline, I would certainly be suspicious if that happened to me and besides which it's very rude.
Furthermore, I think that you should just give him the benefit of the doubt if he seems to be accomodating in the future in trying to make time to talk to you.

He might just have connection problems or a terrible computer (who know's)
One thought maybe the time of the day you are contacting him during, he might have more time one day than another and if you don't believe what he says then it would build a better picture of when he's online anyway

Just try and keep it calm and if he is being a jerk and ignoring you then he was no real friend anyway, but be reasonable if he seems honest in what he say's.

It just occured to me, maybe he's just embarressed, did he tell you about his girlfriend or not? I mean personally I used to be socially awkward and would avoid people needlessly to avoid embarressment. Just also make it clear that your friend can trust you and it might help rebuild any burnt bridge you have.


Good luck :)

[PrimedPenguin]

I know it sucks to have a friend move away. He may be busy I know if you move to a new country he probably has a ton of settling in to do on top of everything else he has to do. He could also me avoiding you but if you guys were good friends then I don't see why moving would change that. Try expressing your concerns to him only he knows what's really going on.

[trystan10]

I dont think he wants to avoid you but if you want to know for sure talk to seriously one day and get everything straight