not even one hour

[Castle of Glass]

so my dad came home today after a business trip and all hell broke lose(verbly). first thing he does, he calls me and my brother to carry his light and small bag up only, at most, 10 stairs. then the next moment, my dad and brother are screaming at each other. then not two seconds after that, my mom and dad are arguing about the house(how clean it is). all of this happened within 5 minutes, at most. and this is pretty much a normal day in my house. before my dad came home, me, my brother, and my mother were happy, we still are, but just not as happy, because we can't watch t.v. and eat, sleep in on the weekends, among other things. do not take this as a message that i hate my dad, i just am getting annoyed.

[ackmedsgirl666]

sounds like your father has some anger/temperment issues
as long as he didnt hurt anybody then thats fine hes just verbal
maybe he just had alot of stress on his plate and just wants to come home and relax
just give him space he will come around.

[Castle of Glass]

sounds like your father has some anger/temperment issues
as long as he didnt hurt anybody then thats fine hes just verbal
maybe he just had alot of stress on his plate and just wants to come home and relax
just give him space he will come around.

he mainly has stress, but it becomes annoying when you can't do what you want, when you want. and why do you think he doesn't scream at me. cuz i am in my room with my headset on listening to music all the time. and if he even tried to hurt anyone physically, i could take him down and knock him unconscious within seconds, if i had to.

[ackmedsgirl666]

thats smart thinking doing that\
better to tune it out then get involved and cause more unwanted aggrivation

[Castle of Glass]

i know that it is smart. that is how i block out everything if i wanted to. too bad i can't do that in certain classes at school

[DerBear]

Other than talking to your dad and discussing your problems with him. I don't see another easy solution. But he doesn't sound like he is much to have an open and honest discussion. He might like some others have said, have anger issues which are most likely to do with stress. Some people just get stressed easily and when they do they take it out on other things which is completely normal but again, is quite annoying for you and other around him who have to put up with it.

You do a smart thing by blocking it out but remember you can only block it out for awhile. If you can't talk to him, try and talk together as a family when he's not there and see if you can pull a family approach to it.

[Castle of Glass]

Other than talking to your dad and discussing your problems with him. I don't see another easy solution. But he doesn't sound like he is much to have an open and honest discussion. He might like some others have said, have anger issues which are most likely to do with stress. Some people just get stressed easily and when they do they take it out on other things which is completely normal but again, is quite annoying for you and other around him who have to put up with it.

You do a smart thing by blocking it out but remember you can only block it out for awhile. If you can't talk to him, try and talk together as a family when he's not there and see if you can pull a family approach to it.

my family fell the same way sometimes, but even if we tell him about it, he forgets it the next day.