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swepro
December 3rd, 2012, 07:35 PM
Mixed signals again..
Dear community, I've been slight friends with this shy girl for about a year now, we recently started hanging out more often and subconsciously I have been flirty with her. She responds well though cause when we watch movies she is very cuddly and we send each other sweet texts but I get really mixed signals! This is tearing me apart cause one second it feels like she literary wants my tip but the other second she acts all "we are just friends". I bought her birthday present to "seal the deal" She got me one back but I only get more mixed signals. We are both 17 and she never had a boy in her life so I'm a little nervous about how she might respond if I make a move. Should I go for it?

// Best wishes, Leo.

MalditoDia
December 3rd, 2012, 07:37 PM
Yeah. The worst thing that could happen is her saying age doesn't feel that way and the signals will stop

swepro
December 3rd, 2012, 07:49 PM
Yes I guess but it would be very awkward between our mutual friends, which are many..

MalditoDia
December 3rd, 2012, 07:53 PM
That is true. I cant say what you should do but I would take her on a date then see where it leads. How weird can it get just by taking her out to eat and hanging out?

Hunter_Steel
December 4th, 2012, 03:08 AM
I have been in that situation before. Be persistent and take her out to dinner or something. Show her that you really like her (or love her) and if she's sending you these mixed signals, there's a chance that she may or may not say yes. Worst thing that could happen is her saying she's not ready for a relationship. (If she's 17 and not had a boyfriend in her life before, that already gives an idea on that)

Although, it would be best to get a girl's opinion on this one.

~Erich

swepro
December 4th, 2012, 06:48 PM
Yes!! Please any girls who could spare some advice??

swepro
December 5th, 2012, 06:20 AM
anyone?