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HandheldOutlaw
December 3rd, 2012, 06:09 PM
In my community we have a permanent Christmas tree, and the first Sunday of December every year it is officially lit and that's how we begin our Christmas season. I went and I met this guy there, (name withheld) he was pretty nice although significantly older (24) but hebseemed a bit off. We exchanged numbers ( I don't think I was being flirtatious and I couldn't perceive flirtatious behavior in him) and he texted me saying he's in love with with me..we just met last night. Im seriously creeped out and he threatened to kill himself. No cclue how I can handle this.

Xx
Laur

DerBear
December 4th, 2012, 12:53 PM
He's probably just trolling with you. I mean he doesn't know you personally e.g. he doesn't know where you live and you don't know where he lives? He is probably one of these people who do this for a re-action from you. I've noticed this before in a few people who I knew before school they used to do similar things.

My suggestion would to be, if possible, block his number. I don't think this is a cry for help because he just met you and you said he was acting shifty. He can't love you just after a short and normal exchange (you said their was no flirting from both of you) so I'd say he is just messing with you and is probably doing it for a reaction.

I'd block his number and then put said meeting in the past. It isn't worth it.

Stronk Serb
December 5th, 2012, 04:29 PM
He is either a creep or a troll, I think he is something between, a mildly creepy troll, ignore him, do not let his words touch you, he is lying, if he is spamming you with calls or messages, report him to the police. They can easily trace him. Or you can go to your telephone operator and block his number, and forget that you ever met him.

huntersteele11
December 7th, 2012, 10:45 PM
im a boy but he sounds way to weird to be around and if i were you i would stay away from the creep. i herd of love at first site but this dude is talkking killing himself and thats freaky. stay away and be safe and if he keeps texting then tell your mom.

CharlieFinley
December 12th, 2012, 11:13 PM
He could be Ted Mosby.

Troy35216
December 18th, 2012, 12:00 PM
report him or block him or both. or reply back and pretend you're someone else and have no clue who he is. he'll think you gave him a fake number at the christmas tree thing. you can even tell him that. "dude, you were scammed by that girl. I'm a 38 year old guy." heck tell him your a 38 year old cop or district attorney or deputy.

workingatperfect
December 18th, 2012, 12:25 PM
He could be Ted Mosby.

That was possibly the lamest joke I've ever heard.


Anyway, whether he's a major creep or he's just fucking with you, block his number and forget about it.

teen.jpg
December 18th, 2012, 05:18 PM
Tell him that he shouldn't be so dependant on people, and tell him how you feel. If he seemed nice, you may still want to be friends...

Skyhawk
December 18th, 2012, 10:41 PM
Har har har, Chuck.

Block him, don't bother with him. He's just an attention whore.