Am i gay

[david_1994]

hi, david here.
Im worrried im turning gay.
Latley, ive started to become attracted to mens bodys.
I dont find women attractive. Altough, this has only started since ive become a teen and entered puberty, and i had recently left a relationship! Is it possible thats its just hormones.
Because im not currently attracted to women, is this signs of being gay, or can someone be straight without being attracted to the other sex's body, Could i just be going through a faze, or it that only something people say hopeing their kids arent.
Has anyone ever had experiances like this and are not anymore but are not Gay?
Thanks
david

[Underground_Network]

First off... how old are you?

Second off... I've explained this in at least ten threads... you are only gay if you emotionally AND physically attracted to men, and you are only straight if you are emotionally AND physically attracted to women, and lastly, you are bisexual if you are emotionally AND physically attracted to both sexes. I believe that you don't know you're true sexuality until you have become experienced through relationships and actual sexual experiences. By the time you're 20 you will probably know for sure what your sexual orientation is, although it is definitely possible to know for sure prior to that. I believe you should just wait. You are definitely not 100% gay, but you are probably not 100% straight either. Give it time, as you said, its probably just a phase. We all go through a curiousity stage.

[free2bme]

i agree dont worry about it your goin to turn out how you turn out and that is just how its gonna be

[RaisingSand]

If you're still between the ages of 13-15, it's really too early to really determine your sexuality, as the hormones that become all overactive and cause the changes of puberty are still racing around in your body arouses all sorts of feelings etc.
While being gay or bisexual is definitely a possibility, don't stick a label on yourself just yet. I think you should take a few years to sort out how you feel before determining you sexuality. Try not to worry too much. :) :hug:

[Maverick]

Boys Puberty -> Teen Sexuality

[liveandlearn]

Ya u may just be in the curois stage.Do yuo feel that u want to have an experiece with a guy? If no then ur probaly not but if u do i gues its possible

[Sapphire]

At 13 years old (if I did the maths right then I believe you are 13! lol) your hormones are all over the place. Give yourself time for your hormones to settle and don't push yourself to give yourself a label concerning sexuality. Just try to relax and go with the flow. It will become apparent in it's own time.

[david_1994]

At 13 years old (if I did the maths right then I believe you are 13! lol) your hormones are all over the place. Give yourself time for your hormones to settle and don't push yourself to give yourself a label concerning sexuality. Just try to relax and go with the flow. It will become apparent in it's own time.

yer im 13. well dun lol.


Did anyone else go through a faze like this?

[Maverick]

Did anyone else go through a faze like this?
I have been on this website for nearly two years and there have been countless threads like this with people with the same problem, so you are not alone. Don't worry.

[Whisper]

I have been on this website for nearly two years and there have been countless threads like this with people with the same problem, so you are not alone. Don't worry.

were talking hundreds if not thousands of these threads
Your confused hun
It happens to everyone
Just give it time

[david_1994]

thats a relief. I dont have a problem with gays or bi's i just dont want to be one!

[aero booster]

Ok im in the same position as u and i just went and started sucking the dick of my gay mate:cool:

[david_1994]

well im happier
ive just reliesed something very important, ive posted it on another topic, but i cant be botherd to right it out agai, so i'll just past it


like other people have sayed it doesnt what people look like, its who they are! So i believ i am straight or at lease i currently think that. It doesnt matter that i like the mens appearence, because that doesnt matter. ive now realised that im emotionally if not physically attracted to women!!!!

[Prince Jellyfish]

Actually, many homosexuals discover that they're "different" at a very early age. My friend Ben discovered he was gay when he was in 5th grade and my friend Erika was never attracted to boys. The fact that this is beginning to emerge now that you have entered puberty suggests that these budding homosexual urges may be the real deal. Your body is becoming sexually mature and that generally means that it knows exactly what it wants, whether or not you're conscious of it. Good luck!

[jtr41n]

it's ok. ur fine. it's ust puberty at its nest i guess.
ur feeling sexually attracted to other guys which is
normal but as explained above, ur only possibly gay if
ur also emotionally attracted as well.

[lllllJoshlllll]

BOOness

Fuck you

[Sapphire]

hey i feel the same...
i know im straight, like i went out with girls but i feel tempted to experiment...

am i gay? or is it just a faze...

You will find reading the other replies in this thread helpful.

If you have the desire to build emotional/romantic relations with guys as well as, or instead of, girls then you will be bi/gay. If you don't then you are straight.