Thoughts on premarital sex

[Houtz96]

I just want to know how people feel with premarital sex? Are you for it? Against it? Does your religion/morals push you against it? Feel free to answer

[HEN_iP]

Well I personally don't believe in waiting until marriage to have sex. I'm atheist so I'm not restricted by that bound. I believe that sex is a wonderful natural thing and it should be explored freely when the time is right. In my opinion, I'll have sex when I'm at least with a person who I love and have been seeing/will see for a long time.

[PinkFloyd]

Well Im all for it because I believe that if two people are wiling to take their relationship to the next level then there should be nothing stopping them.

[Gymrat17]

I am for premarital sex. I'm a Roman Catholic but I think that people should be free to have sex before marriage. I have no problem with people that wish to wait but that is their choice.

[Ryhanna]

I believe that it should be a personal choice. A person should have sex when they are ready. If someone wants to wait, for personal or religious reasons, then fine. But if you don't want to wait, then that's fine too.

[Taryn98]

I don't see anything wrong with it.

[Shining Star]

Well Im all for it because I believe that if two people are wiling to take their relationship to the next level then there should be nothing stopping them.

Exactly this :)

[Sir Suomi]

As long as both the guy and the girl are both emotionally and physically prepared, and with protection, I see nothing wrong, although I don't think people should just go out with the sole purpose of having sex with everyone. I think if you are wanting to have sex, it should be with someone you truely are serious with. Personally, I've almost lost my virginity, but we both decided since I had no protection at the time, it wasn't worth risking a pregnancy.

By the way, this should probably go in ROTW :D

[LuisFer]

I believe it is a personal choice, I have no problem with premarital sex, having had sex before, I am even a catholic.

[ginny.the.brave]

I think it all comes down to wether or not you are emotionally and physically ready for the responsibility that comes with having sex. having lost my virginity at 13 and realizing that i wasn't ready for the responsibility and the guy i had sex with was just using me so he could look cool in front of his friends and I ended up having to change schools because of what he was saying about me.

[Hungman]

all for, if you want to have sex, go nuts, just wear god damn protection! i dont want no STIS circling around then getting to me

[Abyssal Echo]

I believe that it should be a personal choice. A person should have sex when they are ready. If someone wants to wait, for personal or religious reasons, then fine. But if you don't want to wait, then that's fine too.

I agree with Josh :D Personal choice

[Christine.]

for it

[Heike16]

That needs everbody know for him-/herself...bot I am ok with it!

[Hunter_Steel]

Is a personal choice. Nothing wrong with it. Who you do it with is also your choice.

~Hunter

[TapDancer]

I think the idea of waiting till marriage is unrealistic, but I do believe most teenagers aren't emotionally ready for sex, per say. This is the age to experiment, but from experience, full sex just wasn't cool, I was too young to know what a real relationship was and I hurt for a long time. But, I believe sex should only be instigated in serious relationships, I see it as a sign of love and affection between two people because you are willing to give yourself to that person. I think that frivolous sex is wrong, and will lead to disease. Again, experimentation is different, because that is just seeing what you like, but non-experimental sex, in my opinion is wrong, because it desensitizes people, and in young ages, people are often uneducated. I mean, if two 13 year olds had sex, if one boasted to his friends about it and embarrassed the other, the other sexual partner might not be able to handle the bullying. Keep in mind that this is a controversial matter, also that your asking a bunch of very hormonal teenagers :D

[darkie]

Even though I am Catholic, I don't see it as horrible, as long as the two people participating consent to it, and use protection and won't harm anybody, then that would be alright. I, however, choose to wait until after marriage, but it's my personal choice and I don't look at people badly if they do otherwise.

[Tony070]

GIRLS Isn't it better to know that some guy was saving himself for you? Won't you feel flattered to get married with some who kept himself virgin for you?

[AnnaBeesley]

I wanted to keep my virginity til I was married but I ended up having sex with my boyfriend and it made me feel guilty but we still do it cos its so GOOD I don't think I could stop doing it till I'm married now cos it feels amazing.