masturbation

[devyn704]

i masturbate twice a day but my mom dont know and i use conditoner and i would like to get some lube should i tell her

[grubwarp]

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[Lost in the Echo]

Well if you guys are open about talking about things like that, then I don't see a problem with you asking her.

I'm pretty sure though, you said she doesn't know you masturbate.
So, i'm sure she would be pretty shocked if you asked her about getting some lube, it would most likely be a very awkward moment for the both of you.

So, I recommend NOT asking her.

[devyn704]

and conditioner dont really make good lube thats the issue of telling her i masturbate so i can get lube and her not freak out when she finds it

[FergusDunn]

i masturbate twice a day but my mom dont know and i use conditoner and i would like to get some lube should i tell her

Im sure most parents will guess and after all masturbation is ok and a normal thing =

So if your o asking then do so - sure Mum will understand -

Ok Might be awkward a little - but growing up and life stuff can be so best to just get it over with - or if you shop with mum just grab a box of tissues and say you need for your room- Mum will guess

I would think conditioner will dry the skin amyways

and yes sdude is correct - baby oil is good to

my mom freaks out when it comes to anything like that she freaks when i peel in the summer

peel from sunburn is way differant from needing lube - lotion - baby oil

Im sure she wont - so give her a chance yeah

[sdude]

Lube is kind of expensive and baby oil or Vaseline can do just as well or better for masturbation. Just tell her you have some "chaffing" down there and really need some to make you comfortable...she should have no problem with that!

[devyn704]

my mom freaks out when it comes to anything like that she freaks when i peel in the summer

[Drew5]

don't even tell her ya masturbate, it's implied. So avoid the awkwardness by just saying very casually, "hey mom, next time you go to the store could you get me some Astroglide?"

she'll immediately know what you need it for so you won't even have to use the word masturbate and when she finds it in your room, it wont surprise her.

it might catch her off guard when you ask, so she may not say much at the time. When she thinks about it, she'll probably decide she doesn't need to say anything, so it will just show up on your dresser or in your bathroom.

[Gymrat17]

I wouldn't. I'd get it myself and hide it. Unless you are really open about it, no I wouldn't tell her. Because you'd go up to your room and she's be thinking "he's going to wank again", it'd be really awkward... don't do it.

[devyn704]

that could work but if any one has had this problem let me know what they did

[Drew5]

that could work but if any one has had this problem let me know what they did

One morning I'm at my buddy's house, both his parents were in the kitchen, I rang the doorbell so we could walk to the bus together. So as he answers and we're about to leave, he shouts back. "I'm goin' mom and if you go to the store can you get me some Astroglide! and then we left.

He had it planned out in his head and figured his mom wouldn't want to have a discussion about it with me and his dad around and hoped his dad would tell her to just get it and leave the subject alone.

I busted out laughing when when he yelled it and said I couldn't believe he just shouted it out, but then realized he pretty much made a request, didn't have to have a discussion and left his dad to deal with his mom. haha.

It worked fine. It was in his bathroom when we got home. That night, he said his dad stopped in to say good night before we were going to bed and said something like "way to throw a grenade and leave me to deal with the fall out. And you owe me one Mikey, and you too Rob, because apparently I'm in charge of lube now because she doesn't want to think of you two as old enough to need it. Anyway, it's all good. Let me know when you need more. G'nite."

So that's what he did and that's where I get my lube.

His parents are super cool about everything tho. I know his parents better than my own. It's not even close. It's like they're super nice open people who almost never yell, are pretty funny etc. will actually talk to you and listen rather than bark out orders or just waiting for us to screw up.

[devyn704]

wish i could do some thing like that but i dont go to school or go to friends houses

[Gigablue]

It might be a bit awkward, but you could ask her if you're usually open with her. It might just be easier to but it yourself.

[devyn704]

don't even tell her ya masturbate, it's implied. So avoid the awkwardness by just saying very casually, "hey mom, next time you go to the store could you get me some Astroglide?"

she'll immediately know what you need it for so you won't even have to use the word masturbate and when she finds it in your room, it wont surprise her.

it might catch her off guard when you ask, so she may not say much at the time. When she thinks about it, she'll probably decide she doesn't need to say anything, so it will just show up on your dresser or in your bathroom.

i will do that

[devyn704]

lol didnt have to she unlocked the bathroom door and saw me masturbating lol cause i only had clear shower curtain shut

[LeviMatt]

The fact that you would ask that question tells me you are quite comfortable talking to your mom about these kinds of things, if this is the case you should talk to her about it. :)

[lambo420]

I wouldn't say anything. Just go to the store and buy lube. or if you got some baby oil around the house that works great!!

[deanbrodi]

No, just buy some skin moisturising cream in a supermarket. Put a little bit on your cock & rub it for a few seconds, then put some water from a small bottle onto your cock while masturbating. Do't use conditioner 'cos it might burn your skin after a few days of using it.

[Sean4U]

You can buy it yourself....just go to the store and get KY or at some drug stores they carry lube and you can buy it yourself...just like buying condoms you might get looks but it is legal for any age....

[Canadian Dream]

It depends, if you feel comfortable buying lube yourself then go to some lotion store or if you're not comfortable then ask her.