Why does he have this affect on me!

[rosswalk]

I got this really weird situation going on, theres this new guy that has come to our school and he has been hanging out with me and my pals, when im around him i get weird feelings like when you start to fancy a girl, i got a girlfriend and have never looked at guys before in my life!
But this guy just does something to me, i think he might be gay as well hes getting lots of attention from girls but its like he not interested at all. When he looks at me and smiles i get like that nervous feeling in my stomach and he always sits beside me and it just feels so good to be close to him, I dont have a clue whats going on! i know guys get curious about other guys but that would have happened to me before now i think and would have happened with my other friends, but its just this one guy.
Has this kinda thing happened to anyone else? does it mean im going gay now?

[Ryhanna]

I'm sorry if this is quite forward, but do you feel sexually attracted to him?

I realise that you've stated that he makes you feel the way that you do when you fancy a girl, but romantic attraction and sexual attraction are very different. If you feel sexually attracted to him, then you're likely curious about your sexuality, or discovering an attraction to the same sex.

[FergusDunn]

I got this really weird situation going on, theres this new guy that has come to our school and he has been hanging out with me and my pals, when im around him i get weird feelings like when you start to fancy a girl, i got a girlfriend and have never looked at guys before in my life!
But this guy just does something to me, i think he might be gay as well hes getting lots of attention from girls but its like he not interested at all. When he looks at me and smiles i get like that nervous feeling in my stomach and he always sits beside me and it just feels so good to be close to him, I dont have a clue whats going on! i know guys get curious about other guys but that would have happened to me before now i think and would have happened with my other friends, but its just this one guy.
Has this kinda thing happened to anyone else? does it mean im going gay now?


I think maybe cos he is new and you know your mates also he has not settled in and maybe he is just shy around girls. But yeah it can be hormones as well get curious. The fact that you have not felt that way beofre could be cos you know your mates and this guy is new.

I sometimes feel like that -

[Zman21]

This could mean a lot of different things. There is a possibility that it means you are becoming gay but more likely than not it probably means you are just curious. I think the main reason you feel like this is because this guy is new. It is like the feeling some guys get when they get a new pair of underwear. In that post, they said that trying on new underwear makes them horny only because it is new. The best way to figure this out is to just get to know him better. If your feelings for him fade as you get to know him better, then its no big deal. However, if you still have strong feelings for him and you know that he has feelings for you, then why not try something out. Just make sure you are both comfortable with it before you jump to any conclusions.

[rosswalk]

i think i might be a bit attracted to him cause ive thought about what it would be like to kiss him sometimes, its really weird that ive never thought about stuff like this until i met this guy, maybe its because i think hes gay.

[MalditoDia]

I feel for you man. I go/went through thus daily

[Lost in the Echo]

It appears that you have a little crush on him, I honestly don't think it's anything serious, maybe you feel the way you do because of your hormones raging.

But if months go by and you still feel this way, then it may be something more serious, you might be in love with him.

[dontfiguremeout]

I think it's just curiosity. I think you haven't thought of guys like that for your whole life, and now it comes to you right now. Just go on with life, and if you want, try things out just to make sure.

[rosswalk]

I am starting to wonder if i love him, i cant wait to see him every day and love being around him more than my girlfriend i dont even think about her much.
Maybe having a boyfriend is easier than a girlfriend because you like the same stuff and everything but im straight so i dont know why i feel like this.

[DerBear]

I am starting to wonder if i love him, i cant wait to see him every day and love being around him more than my girlfriend i dont even think about her much.
Maybe having a boyfriend is easier than a girlfriend because you like the same stuff and everything but im straight so i dont know why i feel like this.

I wouldn't rush into things. It could just be your own personal curiosity, puberty can do this to you.

However I think you might have a crush on him. This doesn't mean you're gay, you could be but who knows. You say you have a girlfriend so I dunno.

Do you have an emotional and physical attraction to him? Like could you see you two spending the rest of your lives together? Do you feel this way or even close to this way with other boys?

Its hard to say. I'd think long and hard about it and don't rush into doing anything. You don't have to put a label on yourself or anything like that so take your time. Remember love is a strong word so think hard about that word as well.

Good luck.

[alexkun]

it might be the beginning of something new in your life, and its ok, go on and try new things. I did, and it was amazing, maybe in your case is not, thats why nobody can tell you how its like. You gotta do it yourself :D