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RCT109
November 29th, 2012, 11:21 PM
hey guys

here it goes


so the girl i posted about before has a bf now but thats not the reason


has this ever happened where you and someone you like had spent most of yuo free time besides when you were a sleep or school, or work together. well it happened with her and I

this was a 2-3 month thing and then she says that she kinda had a bf


I want yalls oppinion

were we dating or were we not.
the only reason I ask is because everytime the subject came up we both changed it.

please guys its been about 4 weeks now but still

please any advice or opinions

FreeFall
November 30th, 2012, 12:01 AM
If both of you can't or won't call it dating, then no. Maybe it was a fling, or a thing, hanging out or a hook-up type of thing.

Dating in something consensual by both parties, and understood by both parties. So unless you both say yes it was dating, it wasn't.

ackmedsgirl666
November 30th, 2012, 12:57 AM
It sounds to me like the feelings were there but one or the other was wheeling eachither
incase you don't know what wheeling is it means your not dating but your mire than friends just not sexually. It sounds like she knew you liked her but she wasn't fully sure of her feelings so instead. Of testing it out she went to some other guy. Doesn't sound very nice