Today is my Crush's Birthday

[CharlieHorse]

So yeah, like just about every guy, I have a crush (of about 4.5 months) too. She doesn't know I exist, but I really like her.
Today was her birthday, I could tell because when I did my usual walkby by the place where she hangs out with her friends, she was wearing a pink fluffy tiara, and had a bunch of balloons, and a stack of assorted sweets.
I couldn't help but feel like I should have said something to her, or said "happy birthday".
We have no classes together besides PE, but during then, she's busy with all of her popular friends and such.
I'm, in a sense, popular (meaning I have a lot of friends/acquaintences) in the realm of normal people, if that makes any sense. I'm just a normal, friendly guy, and I am passionate about my hobbies and such. I'm not a dbaggy athlete, or a gangster, or anything else that the popular girls "like", but a lot of her male friends can be like that, and some of her female friends are those types of girls that are super popular, and/or a little bit snobby, and such.
I know, however, that she is not at all like that. I know for a fact that she isn't a mindless fashion bimbo like some of the others, but a sweet, lovable girl who loves photography. I'm just too worried to bridge the gap of society, and be her friend (later ask her out) because her and I will probably receive a lot of BS from the snobbier individuals of our separate friend circles.

I crumble under judgement from society, I just can't take it. I want her, and I want her to want me.
What should I do?

[Gandalf]

You could try and become friends with her, find a conversation and then just see where it goes, I don't know how likely it is she'll be interested but over time who know's.

When the time comes, just tell her how you feel and be honest.
Hope I've helped :)

[Stronk Serb]

Try it, my crush is alao in the snobby company, but she is OK, and I did not hear any judgements from the snobby girls about me trying to become friends with her, and she pretty much respects me, while her two former friends who have are hating me, and my friends for no reason.

[GoldenSnitch]

Say Happy birthday and strike up a conversation

[CharlieHorse]

I think I've really convinced myself that I'll never find someone... I'm just not good enough to be a good bf...
I don't think there's any point for me to try with her. I'll just get over her someday.
Thanks anyway guys :l

[GoldenSnitch]

Don't worry. You WILL find someone.

[CharlieHorse]

It's really a tough feeling to explain,
I want to find someone, more than anything else in the world right now, but at the same time, I want to feel sad and lonely. I don't deserve anybody.

Sorry if I'm just venting I usually do this late at night.

[CharlieHorse]

I bet she's on here, and I bet she's already read this. I bet she can guess who I am. Now she thinks I'm weird, and creepy, and desperate.

[GoldenSnitch]

Welcome to my world! Also, I am most active at night. School during day so, naturally at night oz when I go on. Hey, this is to your crush. If you have read this, I will let you know this person, who has none of the the traits he listed above.

[CharlieHorse]

Well, update. Haven't seen her in 2 weeks. She hasn't come to PE class, and I think I scared her off... :(

[Jakejjj]

Get it for her you have nothing to loose girls like that kinda stuff good luck

[Mind Blank]

I find your posts strangely poetic, mrcharkteeth.

I don't have much advice to give, but I strongly believe that if somebody thinks you're weird for liking them, then they're not worth liking. I think a lot of people feel the need to skip the friend part, for fear of ending up in the "friend zone", which I don't particularly think exists. I reckon it's very important to be friends with them first, so as to have some sort of prior trust to build on.

I doubt you scared her off, but if you did, then good. She wouldn't be worth it.
There IS someone for everyone. =)

[Arsenalfan123]

I had a crush and now we are really good friends. I'm talking to her now. We won't go out we have talk ended about it and kissed but we don't want to ruin friendship. You know how it all started by saying happy birthday in the corridor