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neo33
November 28th, 2012, 10:52 PM
Well I don't really know where this should go so moderators feel free to move this!
So...this is a REALLY long story...
I had a friend (Gurl #1) who had a huge birthday party. At her huge party was Gurl #2 (who I liked) and I by accident at some point ran into G2's boob and brushed against it. Didn't say sorry cuz we were all kinda close and not that big of a deal. But like 10 min later Boy #1 comes out of no where and puts me in a headlock. While I am in a headlock he forces me to apologize to G2 and didn't let go until I did. So then after that, I started arguing with him on facebook, and then his friend got involved (G3) and I called her a whore. Than G1 was on my side and started with G3 but G3's boyfriend (B2) got involved with me and B1 on B1's side. Also a few other minor people also involved. Then in about a month me and B1 and B2 finally decide to fight at school. When I go, B1 chickened out, but G3 went to the principal and ratted us out. So then me and B1 and B2 all had administrative detention together. But even now we are still kinda fighting, but now all my friends are either still on his side or mine. Its been like 8 months now, but still it seems to keep coming back. Also not only has it seperated some friends, but also my sense of security is gone. I get kinda paranoid. What can I do to make me not so cautious about EVERYONE and everywhere I go.

Lost in the Echo
November 28th, 2012, 11:03 PM
Well the B1 B2 and B3 shit kinda got confusing...but I think the best thing to do in this situation is to ignore everybody and maybe shit will start to settle down.

In this dilemma you should know who is your true friend and who isn't, so just hang out with and talk to who you consider to be your true friends, and ignore the people who have been assholes to you.

Really though, this conflict got started over something really fucking stupid, so if everyone is being a dick to you then tell them to fuck off, you don't need to hang around people who are assholes to you over stupid shit.

qwertrew23
November 28th, 2012, 11:19 PM
Just defend your self and what you believe in. Also, you should take any opportunities you have to reconcile with G2. It will make things better for everyone. Although, I have to agree with Bocefus, the names got me dizzy

FergusDunn
November 29th, 2012, 02:00 AM
What can I do to make me not so cautious about EVERYONE and everywhere I go.



Nothing Caution is good -

DerBear
November 29th, 2012, 02:15 AM
I think this would be better suited in Family and Friends

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Family and Friends.