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Third eye blind fan
November 28th, 2012, 06:58 PM
Alright so I've known this girl who lives an hour and a half away from me has liked me for about a year and I've liked her for about 6 months... In August we hooked up and we've been in close contact ever since. I spent this entire weekend together and she was all over me the entire time but yesterday I tried to hook up with her and she shuts down... I see her later on and she says she has a boyfriend but she really likes me and knows I really like her and she's probably breaking up soon... Then she apologized for not telling me about it and left... I don't know what to do bc I'm really upset that she led me on for so long but that door is still open and I still like her... HELP
Ps - sorry if this seems a little scatterbrained but I just let it all out as I was typing and didn't really make sure everything made sense
Noirtier
November 28th, 2012, 07:19 PM
So, basically, she cheated on her boyfriend with you? I could go into how that is a sign of how faithful she would probably be to you, but I'll go ahead and answer your question.
If you want to be with her, she already said that she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon, so I would just wait it out and you can be together once they're over. Personally, I know you like her and everything, but now only did she cheat on her boyfriend, she lied to you about even having a boyfriend and tricked you. That's not the kind of person that I would even trust to go out with, personally, but it's up to you. Maybe it'll be different this time.
FreeFall
November 29th, 2012, 12:00 AM
She kept her boyfriend a secret, and hooked up with you.
What is it about lying and shameless girls that draw guys in? You realize she can and will do the same to you? You're probably not the only guy either. You can be her boyfriend that she hides when she's hooking up with other guys. And when she gets and STD or an STI, you can be happy she gave it to you, at least you know it came from her.
Give it a month at most if you plan on waiting it out. If it's been 3 months, even 2, she's not breaking up with him and she used you.
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