Embarrassed

[justagirl2013]

Hi,

I get embarrassed about my bf seeing my bits, i always feel like there is something wrong with them or it looks funny.

Is this normal or am i being silly?

[ackmedsgirl666]

if you dont feel comfortable with youir body it could be 1 or 2 reasons

your seld conscious. your body makes you feel like an outcast like whatever is there isnt meant to be and you dont feel comfortable with your boyfriend seeing what youve got

or 2 you could possibly be in denial about your body and could be transgendered... as you said you dont like what you see and like it shouldnt. be there. you dont feel right with what you have and think what it would be like without it...

let me ask you. are you happy to be a women... and are you just not happy with your body.. or are you interested in the male body etc?

[justagirl2013]

It's not even my body it's just my bits I'm not sure they r like everyone else's?

[FreeFall]

Bits. Breasts, nipples, vaginal lips? I think I'm getting old hahaha

They're all different hun. Some women have huge vaginal lips, others have small ones, other have shriveled up ones, some have dark ones, some have light ones.
Breasts, nipples, clitoris, vaginal lips...bits. They all come in so many different varities, there is no normal for them.
I have flat nipples. The uh "tip"/"teet" whatever the round pointy top is, only comes "out" when really cold or stimulated. Other than that, they're as pointy tipped as a Barbie Doll's. Just a round dome. I am the only girl I know with flat nipples. I'm the only girl my boyfriend knows and has been with that has flat nipples. He likes it, still don't know how, but it took me a long time to stop being mortified over being so different.

Your body is your body. I know it's going to be hard to get comfortable in but you've got em, and you'll rock them. Confidence is sexy, so own it and work it.
Also, talk to your boyfriend. Share your discomfort with him. Maybe he can help you and show you you're beautiful.

[ackmedsgirl666]

everybody is different
no one vagina. breast, face, but etc is the same
if we all lookeed the same the world would be a boring place and men wouldnt have options for different women

[ItsChelsea]

I felt the same way, my bf was so frustrated it took me so long to be ok with showing him, but when I did I loved his reaction, so now it's all good.

[Heike16]

My boobs are lately only seen by my sister and my bff *blush*

[justagirl2013]

is there anywhere to look at different vaginas to see what they look like? I never really seen anyone elses :/

[FreeFall]

...you can google them if you need more reassurance. Try a health site, a woman's health site really.

[ackmedsgirl666]

google images
i found this....... check it out. hope it help
http://www.google.ca/imgres?num=10&hl=en&tbo=d&biw=1280&bih=644&tbm=isch&tbnid=G5UVyL8IcfvBrM:&imgrefurl=http://musingsfromthesoapbox.blogspot.com/2011/09/random-edition-celebrate-diversity.html&docid=MpRdFRiscn0EUM&imgurl=http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2FMPrQT3j2w/Tn-cSoruUVI/AAAAAAAAAPI/LFgOYV6_CbM/s1600/Celebrate%252Bdiversity%252B-%252Btumblr_lb32hqrj3W1qdattlo1_500.jpg&w=500&h=402&ei=mOq2UOjjCceW2QXNvoDIBA&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=380&sig=107096168826637474656&page=1&tbnh=131&tbnw=163&start=0&ndsp=20&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0,i:88&tx=83&ty=95

[justagirl2013]

google images
i found this....... check it out. hope it help
http://www.google.ca/imgres?num=10&hl=en&tbo=d&biw=1280&bih=644&tbm=isch&tbnid=G5UVyL8IcfvBrM:&imgrefurl=http://musingsfromthesoapbox.blogspot.com/2011/09/random-edition-celebrate-diversity.html&docid=MpRdFRiscn0EUM&imgurl=http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2FMPrQT3j2w/Tn-cSoruUVI/AAAAAAAAAPI/LFgOYV6_CbM/s1600/Celebrate%252Bdiversity%252B-%252Btumblr_lb32hqrj3W1qdattlo1_500.jpg&w=500&h=402&ei=mOq2UOjjCceW2QXNvoDIBA&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=380&sig=107096168826637474656&page=1&tbnh=131&tbnw=163&start=0&ndsp=20&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0,i:88&tx=83&ty=95

Wow!!

[ackmedsgirl666]

well there you go and now you know
vaginas come in all shapes and sizes.. doesnt matter what they look like
and in my opinion who cares the only person who really sees it is you unless your being intimate with a partner. your vagina is under clothing

[Brook]

Never be ashamed of any part of your body. I consider any guy that sees me privledged.

[randomnessqueen]

a teen being self conscious about her body
o yea, thats as normal as you can get.
it doesnt matter whether or not its silly
what matters are your feelings about it

[Zoe16]

so many dif camel toes--wow is right

[Mortal Coil]

You aren't being silly, but there's no reason to be shy. If you're genuinely uncomfortable because it's your body, that's one thing, but if you think you aren't normal then it's probably just because we have been taught to hate our bodies our whole lives. Your boyfriend probably won't even care. :)

[PandasaurGoRawr]

Society is a major factor. Babe, love your body. My girlfriend, looks like a ten year old, and I still love her.

[anyone50]

I can totaly identify with you on this. i noticed around 12 that my inner lips were sticking out way farther than my outer lips and so i was very shy even when changing in front of friends in school. now it's no big deal and actually perfer them long (more to play with) and i get no compaints from my bf he loves them. If you think it would help to see how other girls vagina's look there are plenty of places to see that on the internet but just take pride that your unique and their's no one else exactly like you. I sure do

[Ellie wood crainey]

There's no need to like your vagina, who cares! Your bf should like you for who you are period.

[Josie95]

I'm sure you're lady parts look just fine and you have nothing to worry about. If your boyfriend is somehow bothered by them then he's probably not the guy for you.

[justagirl2013]

He isn't bothered its just me. Guess I will have to go vagina searching to compare mine !:)