For Closeted Guys!!!!

[Pierce]

You ever just wanna break out of the straight you for like a minute? lol. I'm closeted and masculine so nobody knows or thinks im gay (at least i don't think they do). Anyway sometimes i just wanna be like "Honey you cannot wear those shoes with that dress!!!!!" I don't even think I know much about fashion (Even though when nobody is around i try to watch an episode of project runway =p) but c'mon some things are so obvious!!!!! I have other times I wanna break out too but that's just one example lol. Any of you closeted gay or bi guys feel like you just wanna break out of your straight selves to say like one thing?

[Noirtier]

I think I understand what you're asking, so yes, there are times when I wish I could just be totally out of the closet and not have to hide who I really am. At the end of the day for me, though, I really don't care. Being in the closet is hard, but once you start coming out it gets a little easier each time. I'm out to several people, and in all honesty as far as the things I like talking about and such, I'm not that different from straight guys. There's really nothing specific that makes me want to wish I could just be out of the closet for a second, I just wish I didn't have to put on a false persona for people. Once I'm out of high school, I'll be able to come out fully though. So again, it's not a huge deal to me, wanting to come out to say "just one thing."

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Wouldn't call myself "closeted" per se, but I guess that I am? I don't find the need to tell anyone, and if they ask, I would tell them. No big deal. If they judge, let them. I couldn't care much less ...

[Steven_123]

Lol, I know this is for gay guys in the closet, but I just recently came out (yesterday) so I know what your talking about.
I agree, I know very little about fashion, but seriously. You can't wear black high heels with a lime green dress. Its just wrong, so I think. Others may say differently.

[StoneColdNicky]

Wouldn't call myself "closeted" per se, but I guess that I am? I don't find the need to tell anyone, and if they ask, I would tell them. No big deal. If they judge, let them. I couldn't care much less ...

I decided a while ago to adopt your attitude, Robo. I wouldn't want to do the whole thing of breaking it to everyone, because I kind of think it just highlights the fact that being anything other than straight is a big deal, which I don't think it should be.

[Pierce]

Lol, I know this is for gay guys in the closet, but I just recently came out (yesterday) so I know what your talking about.
I agree, I know very little about fashion, but seriously. You can't wear black high heels with a lime green dress. Its just wrong, so I think. Others may say differently.

lol in my case it was brown heels with a black dress. big no no lol.

[Steven_123]

lol in my case it was brown heels with a black dress. big no no lol.

Oh No! Brown and Black do not go well together. Glad we agree :D Lol
I had to help my friend decide on which scarf to wear
She had pink pants on, and a black plaid shirt with a black undershirt

She had a short pink plaid scarf, or a long pink/white weird pattern scarf.

I didn't think either of them went good with her clothing lol.

[Skyline]

All of the time!!! Most of the time its because a lot of girls at my school wear flannel and they couldn't pull it off to save their life!!!

[Jaded Cobalt]

You ever just wanna break out of the straight you for like a minute? lol. I'm closeted and masculine so nobody knows or thinks im gay (at least i don't think they do). Anyway sometimes i just wanna be like "Honey you cannot wear those shoes with that dress!!!!!" I don't even think I know much about fashion (Even though when nobody is around i try to watch an episode of project runway =p) but c'mon some things are so obvious!!!!! I have other times I wanna break out too but that's just one example lol. Any of you closeted gay or bi guys feel like you just wanna break out of your straight selves to say like one thing?

I got outed, I never got the chance to come out. Before I was though, I was able to do stuff about fashion, because of how I had my other interests, like hunting and such, I was not considered gay lol.

[Pierce]

I got outed, I never got the chance to come out. Before I was though, I was able to do stuff about fashion, because of how I had my other interests, like hunting and such, I was not considered gay lol.

Do you think it was harder to be outed by someone else or you wish you could had come out when you decided?

[Drew5]

interesting that you mention being in the closet and fashion in your post. I was wondering how to tell if someone is in the closet without asking them.

[PrimedPenguin]

Some days I do wish I could break out of that shell. I think it would make me happier. Only like 2 people know outside of the internet. Also lol on your fashion quote.

[Wonder.]

I have no problem really. I'm out at school but not to my family. I just act like myself and don't really care. I'm pretty sure my parents know I'm gay, I'm just a little worried about telling my dad.

Anyways, I think it would only bother me if I wanted to talk about boys but I have no current interest so it's not really an issue.

YOU though, should come out to at least one person. It's nice to know one person is there for you.

(Also to the person who was talking about the lime green dress, black shoes work if there's black accents on the dress and/or the person wears only black accessories. I don't know why I'm even talking about this but whatever. :P)

[Jaded Cobalt]

Do you think it was harder to be outed by someone else or you wish you could had come out when you decided?

I honestly didn't care if people knew i was out or not. I never tried to act different, or conceal a part of myself, I just saw no need to talk about who i was dating at that time. Like I said, people didn't bother me about my interests because of how I am.