Virgin

[Jpwc333]

I'm 13. And all of my friends have had bjs and hand jobs and had sex. I have a gf and we have made out and I have made out with tons of people. But have not had sex. So all my friends make fun of me. Is it abnormal for me to be a virgin even though there is a lot of girls who have asked. And I want to. But I just get scared when they offer, and don't know how to start when me and my gf are alone.

[HahaWaitWhat]

13 you say? Seriously it can wait.

[StoneColdNicky]

So they say.

[Backflipboy]

Although I was fourteen when I lost my virginity, it wasn't that great. The majority of my friends who are sixteen/seventeen haven't had sex either, it makes me kind of embarrassed to discuss how many times I have done it. My advice to you is to wait a bit longer, sex at fourteen is nothing compared to sex at sixteen!

[DerBear]

Tell me, do your friends talk rubbish a lot of the time?

I mean let's face it. Some people lie on this forum about things they have "done" with friends. So it is more than possible that your friends are telling you lies.

You're 13, you should have no rush to have sex.

[justinglives]

Dude! Virginity is a one time thing. Once u give it up u can never get it back. I was really fortunate. I loved the girl I gave it up to and it was awesome. But at 17.
I suggest u wait until it can b a GOOD memory. Not some futile "stick it in, blow my load, and just get it over with" encounter.

[Lost in the Echo]

You ask if it's abnormal to be a virgin at 13? Well it shouldn't be, but everyone is having sex at younger and younger ages, you can't really do anything about that.

You're only 13, sex can wait, there is a lot of risks to catch STD's or even get the girl pregnant, you don't wan't to do any of that shit at your age.

Just because your friends are having sex, doesn't mean you should, if they jump off a cliff, would you?

Just because everyone else seems to be having sex doesn't mean you should too, just because something like sex is popular at your age, doesn't mean it's cool or Ok to do, there are a lot of risks that come with it that you nor your friends are thinking about.

Also, don't you want your first time to be special? If so, then you should wait for the right girl, don't just fuck some random whore.

[ECSTASY]

just a little mistake can ruin your life bro ...
Catching Aids , make pregnant etc.
in my own opinion , sex is ok after marriage to prevent those risks ...
anyways , unless wait till the age of 18 ;)

[FergusDunn]

I'm 13. And all of my friends have had bjs and hand jobs and had sex. I have a gf and we have made out and I have made out with tons of people. But have not had sex. So all my friends make fun of me. Is it abnormal for me to be a virgin even though there is a lot of girls who have asked. And I want to. But I just get scared when they offer, and don't know how to start when me and my gf are alone.


Just dont beleive all you hear at school - guys boast or just story tell - or just lie to keep up

[ExhibitG]

I'm 13. And all of my friends have had bjs and hand jobs and had sex. I have a gf and we have made out and I have made out with tons of people. But have not had sex. So all my friends make fun of me. Is it abnormal for me to be a virgin even though there is a lot of girls who have asked. And I want to. But I just get scared when they offer, and don't know how to start when me and my gf are alone.

uh, you're 13. your friends are being idiots. you can make fun of them when they get their girlfriend pregnant by mistake at such an early age and you still have your life in tact.

[Swagging god]

Although I lost my virginity at age 12 I suggest waitin for a partner who you can trust and love whole heartly no just someone your infatuated with. I found that person we dated from the time I was 10 till I turned 14. The only reason the relationship ended was because she moved out of state.

[Stig]

I'm 17 and haven't had sex. I plan on having sex for the first time after I get married. I'm a Christian and we don't believe in sex before marriage. Honestly if your friends are making fun of you for not having sex yet and you are only 13, there is something seriously wrong with them and if they keep it off, just tell them to fuck off.

[Boroboii]

Youre 13 mate! Dont go rushing into things

[teen.jpg]

Why lose it at 13? What's wrong with waiting? Sex isn't life, it's not everything. You're friends are just being douches ...

[pmm98]

Honestly, I hate to give such a harsh answer, especially since it says you're a new member;

But legitimately, it is kids like you that are the reason why the older generations are beginning to look down on us. You are 13! I understand the sexual urges, I'm sure everyone at VT does, but they are a normal part of puberty. Having sex at 13 is just totally unnecessary! You're barely a teenager. Have you even started high school yet? Wait until you are 17/18 before you lose your virginity. That's a normal age. It would be abnormal FOR you to lose your virginity at this age. Don't rush to be just like your friends because they sound like the kids who become fuck-ups by the time they graduate because they think that sex, drugs etc. is the only thing important in life.

If they're making fun of you and making you feel like there is something wrong with you, spin it around on them. Ask them why they're fucking all these girls at 13 years old. Remind them that just three years ago they were 10 year olds. That one has shut a couple of people up for me before.

[tide]

wait to do it with a person you love. you're only 13, life isn't about sex

[chesterboom]

Virginity is not like any material thing you give. It's already a bond you give to someone you have sex with. You should consider waiting for the perfect person. And like what our teacher told us, True love waits. LOL

[Mysterious Skin]

At 13, they've had sex. That almost makes me cry.(i know weird) it's totally normal not to have sex that early, in fact that IS normal. Trust me, having sex for the hell of it is so stupid.

[sartbimpson55]

You can wait.

[SoRandom]

In contrary, it's a big humiliation here at my place if you're not a virgin anymore. Hmm... I suggest to wait for the right time... but when the time comes and ur goin to do it... cover your tool.

[PinkFloyd]

You're only 13...

[magman]

at 13 i'd not worry bout it dude, nothing wrong with waiting