I've had it...

[Inventor2]

Before i say anything, i dated this girl a while back. She is very possessive of me and wont let me date anyone else.

There is one girl i like at my school, and only one. Last school year she liked me also so it was JUST perfect then my friend messed the whole thing up! It ended in a huge fight. This year we got over it and where about to date again and now the friend that messed it all up is extremly jelouse again. Now the girl i like wont go out with me because she would feel bad. So now today i found out she is dating this kid that is known to be mean to everyone, weird, and dating her to make someone jelouse. Now she wont talk to me and i have no idea why.

Has anyone else had a friend that does this? Gets jelouse and ruins it? And how can i tell her to stop messing up my relationships!

[ryantombs]

Tell her she never controlled your life and even more so now. Im sorry but we are done.
Boom

[ackmedsgirl666]

you dont need controlling people in your life... they get you nowhere
trust me i know.. ive been there

[Stronk Serb]

Tell the possesive one to take a hike and to boss someone else, about the other girl tell her that the possesive one is being mean and wants revnge for breaking up with you. I am not sure if it went like that, I understood it that way.

[FreeFall]

What positive benefits does this person bring into your life? Why are they in your life? And can you see yourself happy with the fact that until they leave you alone, they will chase off all the girls that cme near you?

People don't control them unless you let them, unless you give them a chance to. Tell this person to fuck off. There's no reasoning with them, there's no asking them, they will turn on you and play a victim card. They will not listen to you unless you show them you mean business. Ignore the person. They no longer exist. They are dead to you. Do not respond, do not even look at them or in their direction. You can't see dead people.
You have to get this person out of your life if you want freedom. There's a small bit of hope they can reform, but do not hold your breath for it.

[Stronk Serb]

Just like many people here replied, just jently and nicely tell her to:
FUCK OFF! And tell her to go and be a bitch queen somewhere else.

[Stronk Serb]

Just like many people here replied, just jently and nicely tell her to:
FUCK OFF! And tell her to go and be a bitch queen somewhere else.

I did this with girls which used/tried to use me (for many things, it has nothing to do with relationships) and it worked, most of them never ask for such things anymore, and those who do, get the same response.