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hugewenis
November 26th, 2012, 01:17 PM
Okay so I made friends with this girl Rebecca and she's amazing! We've gotten really close in the past month and we know and love each other really well (as friends) and we both trust each other but she recently got a boyfriend and I found out a week later. I really like her and want to be more than friends but she's with him... Any advice on what I should do? Thanks so much!

Noirtier
November 26th, 2012, 03:35 PM
You'll just have to wait until they break up--of their own accord, not yours. You may have missed your opportunity for a while, and you need to take responsibility for that. As things are now, you'll have to accept that for the time being she is with him, that she is dating him. Do NOT try to do anything that would hurt or sabotage their relationship, because frankly, that's just not right. You can still be friends with her, but as far as dating goes, you'll have to wait until she breaks up with this guy, if they break up. Chances are, they probably will, most people our age do. Until then, continue on as things have been between you two, and hope that one day, maybe there will be an opportunity again. Also, getting to now each other more would probably help too--you said you've only gotten close in the past month or so. Why not let that friendship just continue to grow as it has been for now?

CharlieFinley
November 28th, 2012, 01:13 PM
Man up and soldier, soldier. And for the love of God and King, don't try to break them up.

Stronk Serb
November 28th, 2012, 05:32 PM
You can try to break them up, which is a 50/50 chance of actually breaking them up, or strenghtening their relationship, so I would wait it out and then, CHARGE! And be the first to claim the prize.