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notsure101
October 5th, 2007, 10:19 PM
see i was haing sex with my girfriend and i was wearing protection (only 14) and the little resivour for the the semen broke will i was in there i dont no how and now she is 6 1/2 months pregnent and just no they found out it was me and now i have to deal with it wat should i do and if it has to be moved pls move it and thanks:confused:

Maverick
October 5th, 2007, 10:24 PM
Do your parents know? The first thing you should do is tell your parents and they'll be able to help you.

notsure101
October 5th, 2007, 10:25 PM
yeah they do now every body found out (future reference for other people)

RaisingSand
October 5th, 2007, 10:34 PM
Do you parents know? If not, then you need to tell them. You need to own up to the fact that you got your girlfriend pregnant, be there for her and support any decision she makes.

total_blank420
October 5th, 2007, 10:54 PM
I think you should find someone who knows about this stuff and has been through it. talk to them and see what should happen. Go Yankees

Vermillion
October 5th, 2007, 11:34 PM
Wow. Well, the obvious thing would to be show responsiblity for your lack of responsibility and let your parents know. But if I may ask, why the heck were you having sex and you're only 14?

Gumleaf
October 6th, 2007, 01:14 AM
well the damage has been done so to speak so you just have to try and be brave now and work out with her how you are going to care for your baby. hopefully you may find comfort and support from your parents during this time.

Malcolm Tucker
October 6th, 2007, 03:27 AM
You have to talk to a professional, perhaps a counceller, how old is she? What did your parents say?

total_blank420
October 6th, 2007, 04:26 PM
you should try sitting down with your girl and both of your parents and talking it over with them

notsure101
October 6th, 2007, 05:14 PM
You have to talk to a professional, perhaps a counceller, how old is she? What did your parents say?

shes my age and do u have any suggestion

TexasGuy600
October 6th, 2007, 10:05 PM
Um not much you can do now accept dedicate the next 18 years of your life to raising a child. This is what happens when you play a risky game.

total_blank420
October 6th, 2007, 11:24 PM
i think you should talk one on one with you parents and see what they think

grimlip
October 7th, 2007, 12:54 AM
make sure your parents know... and have them help you....

RaisingSand
October 7th, 2007, 04:58 PM
Definetly both of you should sit down with your parents ... and seeing your school guidance counsellor who could refer you to a counsellor at the Planned Parenthood clinic or someone who's clued up on/about these sort of situations, you two should both be aware of the options available before you make any decisions. But you have to realise that the decision here is mainly hers, as it's her body.