What to do?

[CtfxC]

Hi ill start my story... my mom and my stepdad were having a baby and everything was going great till my mom and the unborn child died in a car crash, my stepdad was in the car crash but he is alive, now my grandma, stepdad and me are living together and my stepdad met this lady/dyke and she is pregnant from a previous guy and my step dad said he wants to move after he gets us back on our feet and well my whole family ( me stepdad grandma) are not getting along very well and well... what do i do? i like my stepdad but at some times i want him to move out and i just want it to all be happy again. Please tell me what i should do? Thx

[Noirtier]

First of all I'd like to offer my condolences for the loss of your mother. That is a very hard thing to have to experience, and I'm sorry that you had to go through it. Now, as for what to do, that's something that you need to discuss with your stepdad, your grandma, and you. You're the only ones who can decide what to do, and the only ones who can decide if there are other options for you guys. Your stepdad could move out, and leave you and your grandma living together, you could all stay together, or you could go with your stepdad and leave your grandma in the house you guys are in now. Or you could even check out some other options, I'm sure. I would suggest just letting them know how you feel, and talking with them both about what to do. Something else I would suggest is maybe going to see a counselor to talk about everything that happened. You say you want things to be all happy again. That makes me think that, maybe, there's more going on, and that you may need to talk some things out. To help you move on from this traumatic experience that happened, and to help you with how you feel towards your stepdad. I wish you the best of luck, and all of us here on VT are always here to help and support you. :hug: