Happy family.

[LoveMe_HateMe]

I wish. I used to think we where a really nice, happy family but now... I'm scared that my parents are going to split up. I'm worried about them. I worried about my mum, I'm worried about my dad.

I don't know what to do. I want to help but I don't know how.

[Noirtier]

I wish. I used to think we where a really nice, happy family but now... I'm scared that my parents are going to split up. I'm worried about them. I worried about my mum, I'm worried about my dad.

I don't know what to do. I want to help but I don't know how.

Hun, I know this is hard to accept, but there's nothing you can do. Your parents are in a relationship, and if things don't work out, well, they're the ones who have to try and fix it. My parents aren't together anymore, and I know how hard it is, trust me. More than anything else, know that what will happen will happen, and that if they do end up splitting up, it's NOT your fault. Your parents love you, and they'll try to do what's best for you. But, in the end, if they're not happy together, and they make that decision together, well, it's not fair to them to force them to stay together, is it? Let your parents be the ones to work this out, and know that regardless of what happens, they love you, and they will be there for you. And we will all be here for you too. I hope things work out between them, but if they don't, well, we'll all be here. :hug3:

[LoveMe_HateMe]

Hun, I know this is hard to accept, but there's nothing you can do. Your parents are in a relationship, and if things don't work out, well, they're the ones who have to try and fix it. My parents aren't together anymore, and I know how hard it is, trust me. More than anything else, know that what will happen will happen, and that if they do end up splitting up, it's NOT your fault. Your parents love you, and they'll try to do what's best for you. But, in the end, if they're not happy together, and they make that decision together, well, it's not fair to them to force them to stay together, is it? Let your parents be the ones to work this out, and know that regardless of what happens, they love you, and they will be there for you. And we will all be here for you too. I hope things work out between them, but if they don't, well, we'll all be here. :hug3:

Thank you.

I know I can't force them to stay together and that it is their decision, but I don't know if I'll be able to handle it, its always been the three of us (apart from when dad was in the army and away for 6 months at a time). But I always thought we where a close family. I feel like it's my fault. That it's because I've pulled away and cause a massive rift in the family. I know I'm over thinking things - I always do but I can't help thinking it.

[DerBear]

First thing you should know is no matter what, it isn't your fault and that your parents won't love you any less if they do become separated.

Dealing with the possibility of divorce is never easy for a teenager but honestly, there is nothing you can do about it. Its something for your parents to decide. At this stage nothing is set in stone so all this fear could be for nothing. However if your mum and dad to split up then they'll do what is best for you and you will get over it. It will be painful at first but you will survive this and move on with your life. You'll see that there is light at the end of the dark tunnel.

Nothing has been confirmed yet has it? So keep your chin up and remember that Virtual Teen community is always here for you 24/7. I hope your family does stay together but if it doesn't you will get through this.

Best of Luck!

[LoveMe_HateMe]

Nothing has been confirmed yet has it? So keep your chin up and remember that Virtual Teen community is always here for you 24/7. I hope your family does stay together but if it doesn't you will get through this.

Best of Luck!

No it hasn't, but I have a habit of over-worrying about stuff...

Thank you for the support

[DerBear]

No it hasn't, but I have a habit of over-worrying about stuff...

Thank you for the support

No problem. Like I said, VT is always here for you whenever you need it. You just gotta ask for help.

And do threat over something that might never happen. We all have a tendency to over worry about things but seriously, don't you'll feel a lot better when you stop worrying.