i think i made the wrong choice

[ackmedslayer556]

ok so for those of whom that has never read my threads before you probley should before reading this one. ok so last week i went to my moms for the week but while i was down there my girlfriend came along a few days later and then the problems started. the second day she was there she saw her ex bf and once again cheated on me but this time instead of just telling me she had to break up with me first. now thats not the worst of it. a couple days later i had to bike over to her friends house at 11 at night because of some bs but while i was there she had told me that she was posting threads on her about her e and her best friend those past couple days so she changed all her passwords so i wouldnt find out. so anyways i left after we talked and i went home to moms and read all her new threads, well thats was where it started. she had one very long thread about how much she loves her transgender best friend and i killed me alot to read it because it was basically ment to break up with me through the thread. so the next day she broke up with me agin and that was wheer the depression started because i hadnt realized how much i really did still love her. so until the end of our visit down there it was a back and forth battle between her chosing me and her friend. i got hurt alot from it and i even did the one thing i hated which was cut myself. but before we left the three of us came to an agreement that if she(gf) could stop herself from doing anything with me for a week then her friend would go out with her and i was to tell her friend if she had touched me in any way, which put me in a powerful postion i didnt want. so anyways we got on the train and for half the ride i just sad there feeling like shit until i let her strew up and kiss me and choice me. so the whole point of all of this is that i still feel like a jerk for not giving her a chance to see what those feelings for her friend really ment. and thats why i saw i think i made the wrong choice. i really need some help here please cause idk if i did the right thing or not? should i have let her kiss me or not? please help im just a huge depressed wreak right now and idk what do or say to her without her getting the wrong idea that i wanna break up(cause i dont) but i want her to be truly happy.

[Discomposure]

If you don't feel you've made the right choice then maybe you haven't.
You have to choose what you feels right for you.
The fact that your girlfriend has been messing you about shows that maybe, she doesn't feel the same way you feel. Obviously I can't say what choice is right and wrong; it's your relationship.
Seriously though, think about what you deserve. You don't deserve to be treated like that. If she loved you enough, feelings for someone else wouldn't be there, or mean anything. It's obviously getting you upset and stuff so you need to think about what you really want, your happiness and whether the relationship would be good anyway because you said she's cheated on you, trust will be a massive issue.
Love can be horrible at times, I understand how hard this can be but seriously, think what is best for you!

[Enthusiast]

Don't let us dictate how you feel.
Also, treat yourself to some punctuation.

[ackmedslayer556]

ok thanks for the help. but it still bugs me that i may not have made the choice. i feel that i was selfish by just following my heart instead of letting her be happy and make her own choice

[CharlieFinley]

Dump HER loser ass. She cheated more than once. She should be gone.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Screw off chicky
you don't know anything ok. Your negativity is not needed here

[CharlieFinley]

I know that if you can't trust the person you're with not to beat the shit out of you or cheat on you, you probably shouldn't be together.

[ackmedsgirl666]

I know that if you can't trust the person you're with not to beat the shit out of you or cheat on you, you probably shouldn't be together.

Seriously back off buddy its not your problem
All you have commented here is negative shit and he doesn't need that

[Ryhanna]

Seriously back off buddy its not your problem
All you have commented here is negative shit and he doesn't need that
Are you involved in the OP's situation? If you are, please cool it. The OP posted here looking for advice, so all members are entitled to give their advice, positive or negative, even though it's not necessarily their problem.

OP, my advice is to think about the situation. If you're wondering whether or not you made the right choice, maybe you haven't made the right choice. Just take some time to think over the pro's and con's of your decision and do what's best.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Are you involved in the OP's situation? If you are, please cool it. The OP posted here looking for advice, so all members are entitled to give their advice, positive or negative, even though it's not necessarily their problem.

OP, my advice is to think about the situation. If you're wondering whether or not you made the right choice, maybe you haven't made the right choice. Just take some time to think over the pro's and con's of your decision and do what's best.

Yeah I am
Im the girlfriend

[CharlieFinley]

Seriously back off buddy its not your problem
All you have commented here is negative shit and he doesn't need that

Oh. Well in that case, don't worry about a thing because relationships are magic and stock prices are only going up and fairies are real.

You're only upset because I'm right.

[ackmedsgirl666]

My boyfriend(OP) requests. That this thread be locked
he says thanks to all the positive comments
he cant. Access. Vt. Right now
Mods. Please lock
Thanks~mike ~

[StoppingTime]

Everyone here is entitled to their opinion, and they are welcome to post it, regardless of whether or not you think they're right. Please don't invoke other members like this again, or you'll be infracted, Kenzie.
When your boyfriend logs on, he can request a lock, but since this isn't your thread, you aren't allowed to.

[ackmedslayer556]

Are you involved in the OP's situation? If you are, please cool it. The OP posted here looking for advice, so all members are entitled to give their advice, positive or negative, even though it's not necessarily their problem.

OP, my advice is to think about the situation. If you're wondering whether or not you made the right choice, maybe you haven't made the right choice. Just take some time to think over the pro's and con's of your decision and do what's best.


thanks alot i will take some time to sit back and think about this, u are one of the few on here thats has given me much help today so again thanks :)

and at this time i would like to request that this thread be locked now
mods i thank u when you do


I merged your double post as well. -StoppingTime.

[StoppingTime]

OP Request. :locked: