Is it cheating?

[Jenny jr]

If you are a girl with a boyfriend and you touched a girls body would it be considered cheating. I've been in this situation and I kinda feel bad about it. I did not touch the girls privates though.

[Tristin.]

yes it is. The fact is you are in a relationship with someone and if your boyfriend has not condoned it or does not happily know about it, then it is cheating.

[Jenny jr]

I was afraid you were going to say that. Do you think I should tell him about it. I am definitely never going to touch another girl again.

[Tristin.]

well, be prepared for his reaction. he may let it slide or he may not. but yes, i think you should tell him. hiding it from him makes it worse.

[StoppingTime]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating; this fits better there.

[KikiMekaka]

Tell him, if he truly loves you, he won't care.

[dingo006]

if you have to lie about it then i think its cheating. if you are open and honest then i doubt its cheating

[FreeFall]

The fact you're feeling guilty and feel torn about telling him or not should answer your question. Yea, in my eyes it's cheating. In his it may not be.

[Brook]

umm well.. if it was just fun between friends it should be kept between friends.. guys come and go but friends last

[workingatperfect]

umm well.. if it was just fun between friends it should be kept between friends.. guys come and go but friends last

Uh no, that's not how relationships work.

Yes, tell him. He may be perfectly fine with it, but you should never hide something like that from your boyfriend, it ruins the trust.

[CharlieFinley]

If you are a girl with a boyfriend and you touched a girls body would it be considered cheating. I've been in this situation and I kinda feel bad about it. I did not touch the girls privates though.

I wouldn't worry about his reaction. Most of the guys in the 14-16-year old range would be like "LOL, that's HOT."

Doesn't mean it's not cheating, though. Because it is.

umm well.. if it was just fun between friends it should be kept between friends.. guys come and go but friends last

umm well.. no. If I boned my best female friend, she would be CHEATING on her boyfriend, regardless of if we were just friends with benefits. Now, I could argue pretty successfully that this doesn't carry the hallmarks of damaging infidelity (emotional or physical dissatisfaction causing emotional or physical infidelity); rather, it seems it was marked by a simple desire to experiment. However, it's still cheating.

[Stronk Serb]

Either tell him an risk the relationship, or never speak of it again. I think that he would not mind it, since girls in my school do that sometimes, but it depends what kind of stuff girls normally do there.