View Full Version : What should I do????
ayelove100
November 24th, 2012, 08:39 PM
Ok so, I have 2 piercing and my sis has a belly button piercing. My sis got it but she regrets it because it can be a pain some times. I don't want a belly piercing but I really want a third piercing on my ear. I already have 2 and they look nice and simple but I thing a third one at the top of my ear would look nice too. I told my mom and she said no its good that I already let u get a second. My 2 sisters told me lets go and shell let me get one and i was gonna go but i felt bad doing it from behind my moms back. What do you think I should do?
Noirtier
November 24th, 2012, 08:51 PM
My opinion? If you do it behind your mom's back, she will get mad at you, you will get in trouble, and she might make you get rid of it (i.e. let it close up.) I would advise against it, just because in the long run it would save you quite a bit of grief from your parents and strife and conflict between your parents and you and your siblings. But the decision is yours to make.
ayelove100
November 24th, 2012, 08:53 PM
My opinion? If you do it behind your mom's back, she will get mad at you, you will get in trouble, and she might make you get rid of it (i.e. let it close up.) I would advise against it, just because in the long run it would save you quite a bit of grief from your parents and strife and conflict between your parents and you and your siblings. But the decision is yours to make.
i know my mom will probably do that but she didn't do that to my sis. And again my sis was a belly piercing so it would be painful. Anyway im just gonna use the fake ones until my mom can get convinced that its ok for me to have a real one. thanks :)
mustangboi
November 25th, 2012, 12:23 AM
Just do whatever you thi k and feel is right I would feel bad because I like to listen to her but at the same time it is your life so do really whatever that you want to
LouBerry
November 25th, 2012, 12:27 AM
I wouldn't got behind your moms back. She's the one that can ground you.
dingo006
November 25th, 2012, 02:05 PM
yeah id try to present it like an argument. Id list my reasons and id ask my mother why she doesnt want me to. Id ask for maybe a trail period. you got to find a way to respectfully press your mother.
DerBear
November 25th, 2012, 02:06 PM
My personal opinion. All that you'll achieve is your mum getting really annoyed at you and she might even ask you to take it our or something like that, then you've went through pain and bother to get no result and damaging your relationship with your mum. Is it really worth it?
No.
So I'd respect what your mum says in this situation.
Boss...
November 25th, 2012, 06:41 PM
I have gone behind my parents' backs multiple times. But, each time I weight the risk and the reward. You also have to take into account if they really can do anything about it, or even what they can take away.
But, when I go behind my parents, I usually either bring home another car or I take the truck where it ain't suspose to go. :D
I personal, for another pericing, wouldn't it. But, thats just me.
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