EmpatheticApathy
October 4th, 2007, 11:03 PM
I met this guy last Friday and it's been a week. I've never dated before, and this might have been considered dating, but... I wouldn't classify it as that.
At the time I met him I was desperate for anyone to talk to. Now I realize that he's the exact type of guy I never want to be married to or even be friends with.
At first he was nice, not the usual random, "hey, can I get with you," type. He still is nice, but he's just too normal for me. I want someone as crazy as me, and I know he's not going to substitute his crude slang for my intellectual words.
So I want to end this relationship. Call me a snob, but I'm sure he's experimenting and seeing how many girls he can get. I want the type of guy who loves me for my crazed mind, not because I'm a girl.
How do I end this? I can end all contact with him if he still persists. Tomorrow I'm going to meet him and tell him concretely that I'm done.
... but I'm sure it's not going to be that easy. I know he's going to try to sucker me into giving it a shot. But I'm not interested in skipping class with a guy I don't care about at all. In fact, I'd love to just keep ignoring him, but I want to confront the problem. I'm just wondering if I can withstand his wiles.
Any help?
At the time I met him I was desperate for anyone to talk to. Now I realize that he's the exact type of guy I never want to be married to or even be friends with.
At first he was nice, not the usual random, "hey, can I get with you," type. He still is nice, but he's just too normal for me. I want someone as crazy as me, and I know he's not going to substitute his crude slang for my intellectual words.
So I want to end this relationship. Call me a snob, but I'm sure he's experimenting and seeing how many girls he can get. I want the type of guy who loves me for my crazed mind, not because I'm a girl.
How do I end this? I can end all contact with him if he still persists. Tomorrow I'm going to meet him and tell him concretely that I'm done.
... but I'm sure it's not going to be that easy. I know he's going to try to sucker me into giving it a shot. But I'm not interested in skipping class with a guy I don't care about at all. In fact, I'd love to just keep ignoring him, but I want to confront the problem. I'm just wondering if I can withstand his wiles.
Any help?