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draketx
November 24th, 2012, 05:04 PM
My friend and I slept and the same bed last night. We are both straight -bicurious and went to sleep hugging and spooning. He fell asleep and I started to touch his dick. Do you guys cuddle;spoon;ect. With your guy friends. I'm bicurious

Lost in the Echo
November 24th, 2012, 05:08 PM
No, I don't, but in my opinion it's wrong to touch someone else's dick when they're asleep, I don't think you would appreciate someone doing that to you in your sleep.

So to answer your question, no I have not spooned with a guy friend, I don't think I would because it seems weird to me, but I don't see a problem with others doing that.

Backflipboy
November 24th, 2012, 05:26 PM
I am bisexual, so yes I have cuddled with other boys. But you are probably so interested because you are curious, perhaps touching him was a little bit over the line but I don't see anything wrong with you guys cuddling.

Voodoo
November 24th, 2012, 05:30 PM
I have cuddled with friends, but never touched their dick when they were asleep.

iwannago
November 24th, 2012, 05:33 PM
well no, first of all becaus i dont have that many guy friends and secod of all wheneevr i have a sleep over eith one we certainly dont cuddle or anything lol

Steven_123
November 25th, 2012, 12:01 AM
I am bisexual, so yes I have cuddled with other boys. But you are probably so interested because you are curious, perhaps touching him was a little bit over the line but I don't see anything wrong with you guys cuddling.

Hey BackFlip, Told you I sorta unintentionally stalk you :P

As to the original post, No. I have never cuddled with a guy. However, since I am gay, I don't think I would mind him playing with my dick at all.

curiousme
November 28th, 2012, 03:54 AM
No but i want to

Syler
December 22nd, 2012, 04:57 AM
Nope

jamesscott
December 22nd, 2012, 07:25 AM
i have cuddled with my friends its normal to be affectionate towards someoe u care about i dont see any harm in cuddling. maybe the penis groping was a bit much but overall cuddling is not just sweet but fun

Magnus Bane
December 22nd, 2012, 03:13 PM
i have never cuddled wit some one but since i classify myself as gay i would cuddle wit a guy friend but the dick thing is wrong i wouldn't do that while he slept and i wouldn't apretiate him doing it to me either

Coolboi
December 22nd, 2012, 03:20 PM
Well if your cuddling an spooning you must be doing more than that so you touching his dick was prob no big deal !

ULeon
December 22nd, 2012, 03:31 PM
spooning cuddling is normal to do with some one that you care about, i do it with some friends sometimes without eve noticing, as long as y'all are both okay with it i do not see a problem with it. With that in mind grabbing him was not the right thing considering that he had no idea of what was happening.

Danny_boi 16
December 22nd, 2012, 03:39 PM
No I haven't I don't see a problem with you two cuddling, but maybe touching him while he was sleeping was a bit much

Steve Hala
December 22nd, 2012, 04:25 PM
I would agree that cuddling is totally ok and there is nothing wrong with it, but it was wrong to take advantage of your friend like that. If you know he is bicurious then you should just ask and find out...

Scottydog
December 22nd, 2012, 05:02 PM
Its perfectly fine tbh, if he was happy with you touching him its all good!

Arsenalfan123
December 22nd, 2012, 05:28 PM
I haven't done any of that. I sleep in seperate beds and I would fell disgusted if some touched my dick while I was sleeping.

ThatGuy69
December 29th, 2012, 03:16 PM
I would love to sleep with someone and spoon, maybe have a little fun as well

hamtown
December 29th, 2012, 03:37 PM
slept in the same bed, but thats it

nick666
December 29th, 2012, 04:19 PM
As a joke yes but never seriously. Nup never touched a friends dick while they were asleep

SirMazing
December 29th, 2012, 05:27 PM
I did that before, good times, I don't know if they were actually awake, because he'd fall asleep and then he'd wake up while I was doing that and I'm sure he actaully enjoyed it without edmiting it

sdude
December 29th, 2012, 05:32 PM
Yeah, cuddling and stuff is fine, but you really need to do the dick touching when he is awake..and hopefully with his permission...exploring can be really fun, but make sure it's on an even playing field where everyone is aware what's going on...believe me it will make things much more fun!!

Michael Anthony
December 29th, 2012, 06:47 PM
i've never cuddled or spooned with a guy but that gives me a great idea for my next sleep over

lukene
December 30th, 2012, 09:02 PM
I have once, he is as straight as an arrow so it was strange, and it was during the day and other people were there... I got the biggest hard on and it was digging into his back but he didnt say anything. In fact he put his legs between mine and started rubbing his legs up against mine... so maybe that arrow is a little curved? ;)

ImCoolBeans
December 31st, 2012, 01:46 AM
That is totally not cool of you to do... Somebody who is asleep cannot consent to sex and any kind of sexual touching like that can be considered molestation if he is not okay with you doing that. I recommend that you never do it again.

Avenida105
December 31st, 2012, 02:26 AM
I would love to be able to that with a friend haha you should consider yourself lucky.

The_Survivor
December 31st, 2012, 02:40 AM
I think that is wrong. Any sexual activity you should do when you both are awake, and you both agree to do so.

DoctorWho
December 31st, 2012, 03:09 AM
I have not... I have no feelings in this way, but my bi friend says he does it to his gay-bi friends... I believe it is fine due to the fact that you have raging hormones.

acurasrock
December 31st, 2012, 06:56 AM
Ive slept in same bed with a friend and cuddled, sure. But I'd be careful with the sleep touching, he could wake up and grab your hand and punch you....lol

dan8854
December 31st, 2012, 10:51 AM
i have. and then he returned the favor another time. it happens.

Irishperson15
December 31st, 2012, 11:56 AM
me and my friend cuddle and sleep bside each other, its comfortable and reassuring

aldabanana
December 31st, 2012, 12:55 PM
Cuddling seems nice, just don't do anything while he's asleep, even if you think he would like it.

super storm
January 3rd, 2013, 03:25 AM
I cuddle with my best friend but I've never ever have touched his dick while he is a sleep

Lovelife090994
January 3rd, 2013, 11:41 PM
Invasion of privacy, curious or not.

WonderTastic
January 6th, 2013, 03:14 PM
I seriously need help asking a friend to cuddle with me. At my old school my friends(girls) and I always cuddle, but here no one wants to. I'm like dang. SO just imagine how hard its gonna be for a guy to cuddle with me. I

klhohman16
January 7th, 2013, 07:48 PM
no i havent

Volcom
January 7th, 2013, 08:44 PM
no big deal to cuddle but if he was asleep n u touched it thats wrong

billy789
January 8th, 2013, 07:04 PM
yep i have do it very often

Sean4U
January 9th, 2013, 03:45 PM
My friend and I slept and the same bed last night. We are both straight -bicurious and went to sleep hugging and spooning. He fell asleep and I started to touch his dick. Do you guys cuddle;spoon;ect. With your guy friends. I'm bicurious

Wrong Wrong Wrong for you to do this without either his knowing about it or his permission.....that is not something that should be done....I'm not saying that cuddling/spooning and holding a guys penis is wrong, just that since he was asleep it is a form of molestation --- no matter if you are the same age or not....

CoolRyan
January 9th, 2013, 05:34 PM
I don't think you should of touched his dick but if you was hugging and spooning and you were both happy I don't see a problem we that.

SSB09
January 9th, 2013, 05:48 PM
No, I never have, but I'd love to! That'd be so awesome!!! :wub:

(except, not while they're asleep...)

ULeon
January 9th, 2013, 10:14 PM
Wrong Wrong Wrong for you to do this without either his knowing about it or his permission.....that is not something that should be done....I'm not saying that cuddling/spooning and holding a guys penis is wrong, just that since he was asleep it is a form of molestation --- no matter if you are the same age or not....

i cant aggree more

RunnerForLife
January 9th, 2013, 10:19 PM
I've cuddled an spooned with friends before and that's fine I think but you probably shouldn't touch your friend down there unless he's actualy awake

alexkun
January 10th, 2013, 02:03 AM
oh.. im so embarrassed.. but yeah.. i have.. but is not such a good idea, its always better to ask for permission, ... and about the spooning.. i love to do it.. and my friends too... we used to have a lot of sleepovers.. and lots of cold nights too.. (if you know what i mean).. spooning was the only option if you wanted to stay alive..and warm throughout the night XD

..once i touched i friend while sleeping.. and i think he found out.. because he did the same to me on the next sleepover XD.. jajaj.. i remember waking up with this tremendous.. urgency to continue jacking and finish.. i looked at him.. and he pretended to be sleeping.... jajja

ImAJock
January 11th, 2013, 12:50 AM
slept in the same bed and jokingly spooned him. he got so pissed! but i havent done it seriously

NudistKid
January 11th, 2013, 05:29 AM
You shouldnt do it when hes asleep its not fair on him but if he agrees when hes awake thats ok

crispxtra
January 13th, 2013, 10:17 AM
If your cool with it go ahead but personally i dont

JustAGuy
January 13th, 2013, 10:33 PM
No I don't although I'm straight and I feel with my own personal values it seems wrong to.. But if it makes you happy that's all that matters but maybe don't touch them while there sleeping with out consent or something

Lovelife090994
January 13th, 2013, 10:37 PM
Never touch someone sexually while they are asleep.

qwertygirl
January 13th, 2013, 11:49 PM
lol okay I'm a girl that has spooned other girls and stuff and believe me when I say that this guy was probably not "asleep." L O L but no seriously he couldn't have been sleeping. But if he truly was then you should probably ask for his consent before doing it again. hey, you guys could make an agreement or something so it wouldn't matter what you did to him in his sleep, who knows.

AND SORRY FOR BEING A GIRL IN THE GUYS SECTION BUT IT'S SO MUCH MORE INTERESTING OKAY.

(would I get in trouble for doing this?)

unusedaccount
January 15th, 2013, 05:32 PM
My friend and I slept and the same bed last night. We are both straight -bicurious and went to sleep hugging and spooning. He fell asleep and I started to touch his dick. Do you guys cuddle;spoon;ect. With your guy friends. I'm bicurious

Cuddling your friend while he's asleep is fine as long as he was fine with it before he fell asleep, if you want to experiment with your friend, ask him. Touching him down there while he's asleep is unacceptable, illegal (depending on how you look at it), and if he woke up, he'd likely freak out. If you have strong feelings for him, express them, but for god sake don't do it when he's asleep, it could end up backfiring and land you in a lot of trouble.

jgjkk
January 20th, 2013, 09:18 AM
the groping was probably a bit far mate

staples
January 20th, 2013, 10:43 AM
it all fine beside the dick thing

xJohn
January 27th, 2013, 01:08 AM
I wouldnt touch him unluss he knows you are going to

Kyyle
January 27th, 2013, 01:14 AM
if i woke up and my friend was touching my dick he wouldn't be my friend anymore. he knows i'm straight and don't do that stuff and if he did it while i was sleeping then that is the same as giving some chick roofies. i would throw him out and tell everyone what he did and he would be lucky that i didn't call the cops. if you and him are curious or whatever when you're awake that is one thing but REAL friends don't molest their friends while they sleep. just saying.

danny_13
January 27th, 2013, 11:26 AM
It's wrong to touch somebody elses penis while they sleep. He should be awake it will make it more interesting

Wrestler0821
January 27th, 2013, 01:00 PM
As long as he knows its cool

Sharkyboy
January 27th, 2013, 01:04 PM
every sleepover me and my bestie do it all the time

Kaystorm
January 27th, 2013, 06:15 PM
I have cuddled but I haven't touched his dick when he was asleep.

Skittles
January 28th, 2013, 03:30 AM
ive never slept in a bed with another dude, however i am curious and would wanna try it. i think that doing that to them while sleeping tho is a little weird and over the top. i think they should be awake. ;)

casperathome
April 15th, 2014, 05:31 PM
I'm Bi curious I guess. Have messed with a few guys. At a sleepover one of my guy friends I fool around with was over and I woke up with his hand in my underwear. Personally I didn't mind. I did the same to him at the next sleepover. I guess if you have messed around before... then it would be ok. But if I was at a sleep over where we hadn't messed around before.. I would prbly be ok too. Not saying it's right...just my opinion.

Harley Quinn
April 15th, 2014, 06:48 PM
This was bumped. :locked: