View Full Version : Problems masturbating?
Matt3234
November 24th, 2012, 04:10 PM
I'm 16 and ever since I've started to masturbate I've never been able to ejaculate or have an orgasm. Although it does give me an erection. I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or not but I do get boners and leak semen when seeing women or if I'm thinking about something really sexual.
Do I have a low libido or something? I do get morning wood and sometimes get wet dreams but that's about it.
If I have a low sex drive, how do I boost it? Thanks.
Lost in the Echo
November 24th, 2012, 04:15 PM
Well if you're 16 and still can't ejaculate, then that's a problem.
I recommend you see your doctor about that.
Wambambam
November 24th, 2012, 04:22 PM
Well if you're 16 and still can't ejaculate, then that's a problem.
I recommend you see your doctor about that.
You know there's a slight chance he might not be stimulating which isn't a medical problem it happens....
Back to the OP though you should try different masturbating techniques different strokes, positions or "dry humping". I didn't ejaculate till I was like 17 years old because I couldn't figure out how to stimulate. Either I stroked to aggressively, to quickly or to slowly; had to figure it out if you catch what I'm saying. If none of those methods work then consider a hospital visit just to be sure there isn't a medical problem behind it.
iwannago
November 24th, 2012, 05:38 PM
well if your leaking pre cum thats a good thing,but try jerking different ways with lube different positions maybe watching some porn , maybe get a friend to do it for you! but if any of those dont work try going to see a doctor!
mustangboi
November 25th, 2012, 10:40 PM
dude dont take any chances and go see a doctor what is the longest that you have ever done it for
sdude
November 25th, 2012, 10:49 PM
Take a hot shower or bath to get yourself really relaxed, get yourself totally naked, relax on your bed with your favorite porn have some lube or lotion ready, work youself up to an erect state, lube up and slowly masturbate with a really light touch...you should feel something begin to build up inside you and just keep going...you should feel your body stiffening up and it will make you want to stretch your legs out and hold them out until the pleasure intensifies and your penis begins contractions...juice seeping out your penis will not mean orgasm without the contractions, this is just precum...the contractions will accompany a full orgasm with either shooting ropes of semen or just flowing up and out of your penis. if the above doesn't work, see a doctor.
curiousme
November 26th, 2012, 12:42 PM
idk what else to say but go to your family doctor because your 16 you should be able to ejaculate sperm and have an orgasm when you masturbate
DerBear
November 26th, 2012, 01:13 PM
While the possibility of not ejaculating until a later age is still possible. I'd maybe start to look into contacting medical professionals. I mean your 16 it is perhaps time you maybe spoke up about. I mean sometimes people won't be able to until 18 but really it is rare that people haven't started by the age of 16.
I don't want to worry you but I think maybe at least talking to a health adviser would be a good thing. It could be nothing but it could be something, you'll never know until you try and find out.
It could be you are not going far enough to orgasm. It could be a lot of things but seeking advice from a professional is never a bad thing. It might be slightly embarrassing but it wouldn't hurt to do so.
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