Help with Sexuality?

[PandasaurGoRawr]

Lately, I've been feeling absolutely no attraction to males. I thought I was bisexual, but now I don't know! Any help on explaining this?

Also, I have a girlfriend, whom I've been with for little over a year.

[Noirtier]

Well, if you feel absolutely no attraction to males, then it is possible that you could be a lesbian. As to the reason why, well, let me examine something. You've had a girlfriend for a little over a year, and you two seem to be happy together. I would venture to say that this could be the reason why. Having a girlfriend, and seeing that you are content and even happy together, could very well have helped you realize or come to terms with your sexuality. Now, it could just be a phase where you aren't feeling any attraction to males, but the fact that you say you've been feeling absolutely NO attraction to them makes me think a little bit otherwise. Also, having a girlfriend who you're happy with would probably have much the same affect as having a boyfriend who someone is happy with--they start to be attached and truly attracted completely to that person, and begin to become a bit less attracted to other people. Regardless though, labeling yourself as "lesbian" or "bisexual" or anything is just that--a label. And there's no real need to do that, especially if you're in a happy healthy relationship right now. I would just focus on your relationship right now, and enjoy it hun.

[PandasaurGoRawr]

Well, if you feel absolutely no attraction to males, then it is possible that you could be a lesbian. As to the reason why, well, let me examine something. You've had a girlfriend for a little over a year, and you two seem to be happy together. I would venture to say that this could be the reason why. Having a girlfriend, and seeing that you are content and even happy together, could very well have helped you realize or come to terms with your sexuality. Now, it could just be a phase where you aren't feeling any attraction to males, but the fact that you say you've been feeling absolutely NO attraction to them makes me think a little bit otherwise. Also, having a girlfriend who you're happy with would probably have much the same affect as having a boyfriend who someone is happy with--they start to be attached and truly attracted completely to that person, and begin to become a bit less attracted to other people. Regardless though, labeling yourself as "lesbian" or "bisexual" or anything is just that--a label. And there's no real need to do that, especially if you're in a happy healthy relationship right now. I would just focus on your relationship right now, and enjoy it hun.

Thanks! I was questioning because last year, before I met Alice, I was all about guys, then it all faded to where I have no sexual attractions to them.

[dingo006]

yeah labels suck. It happens to me sometimes at the beginning of a relationship. I get consumed and im not really attracted to any other type of girl. I get consumed in the moment and i start looking for things she has because its all i want.

[DerBear]

You don't need to rush to label yourself. You're young remember?

Honestly puberty can make your hormones crazy. You are at very young and confusing age, things aren't always the clearest.

Just do what you feel right doing and eventually you'll find what suits you.

[PandasaurGoRawr]

You don't need to rush to label yourself. You're young remember?

Honestly puberty can make your hormones crazy. You are at very young and confusing age, things aren't always the clearest.

Just do what you feel right doing and eventually you'll find what suits you.

Thanks! We've been pretty happy lately, so ill just leave it at that!

[FergusDunn]

Thanks! We've been pretty happy lately, so ill just leave it at that!



Hey thats good all round.