Jason The Great
November 24th, 2012, 10:53 AM
well he used to be my pal....but he changed lately.since my family got promotion and my dad bought an awesome car he changed....
he Always blaming me for nothing he make joke of me with my other friends...
What Should i do?!should i end up this friendship?
FergusDunn
November 24th, 2012, 12:56 PM
why not - has he changed - have you
sometimes it just happens sorry but it does.
You dont have to end it - but let it change
Noirtier
November 24th, 2012, 12:59 PM
Well, sometimes, people change. And, a lot of times, they can change for the worse. You say that he changed when your dad got a promotion and got a new car. In all honesty, he could be jealous or envious of that. The fact that people change because of such petty things isn't a fun fact of life, but it still happens regardless. As for what you should do, the way I see it you have two options. You can try and salvage the friendship by talking to him about it, telling him that what he's been doing has been making you uncomfortable, that he didn't used to act like that, and you would prefer it if he stopped. Not in a confrontational manner, but in a manner as between two friends. If that doesn't work, or if you would just rather not even try it, you could choose the other option of just ending the friendship right now. You yourself said "He's not my friend anymore." To me, it sounds like your mind is already made up, but again the choice is yours, and I'm not going to tell you one route is better than the other. Whether you choose to try and save the friendship or to end it now, all of us here on VT are here to support you, and we'll always be here if you need to talk or need some advice.
DerBear
November 24th, 2012, 01:40 PM
Have you spoken to him?
Your friend probably has changed and it is not a good change. I'd ask him about it and if doesn't want to talk to you and keeps insulting you then end the friendship. You don't want people like that in your life.
He might just be going through a rough time in life. So maybe you should talk to him first and wait awhile and then decide if you should end the friendship.
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