How to find bi guys?

[BigBlackPack]

Hey...so I'm pretty sure I'm bi. I watch gay porn sometimes, and some guys turn me on. Since the only type of guys that i am attracted to are young white guys around my age, how can I meet some of these guys? Ive never done anything with a guy, but have been wanting to, and there are lots of guys at my college, and I still know guys around my hometown from highschool. I just dont know how to start. I come off as straight, and im black...do white guys like black guys? What do you guys think/how did you guys get started?

[Wambambam]

Why don't you try joining some social sites for gay/bi guys for starters? ones you can filter the search to specify location that's a starter :)

[average teen]

you sound just like me but older dude.

[BigBlackPack]

haha...i guess im not man enough lol

[Backflipboy]

We are out there, just gotta find us! As for asking whether white guys like black guys, I think that's a matter of opinion. I am attracted to guys of all ethnic backgrounds.

[DerBear]

This is more of a relationships/dating kind of question.

Therefore, Teen Sexuality :arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

[BigBlackPack]

^cool with me,

and thanks for the advice :D

[alexkun]

i agree with you men.. its really hard to find people like us... i dont know how to look for guys like me... where to start.. :/.. and we cant say here... cause.. we are not allowed to share our information with anybody..

[Hazy]

Go to a GLBT meeting at your college. They should have one. Or create a profile on a free dating site.

[RCT109]

just go for it and start talking to a guy and let it go

[Devonb97]

I have the greatest radar ._.

[Kujiro]

In honestly, I would still advise you to consider your sexuality,
You've mentioned matters of watching gay porn, but straight guys watch them too.

It does seem to me that it's more of a sexual curiousity driven intention over an emotional intention.
It's not wrong to be up front and curious, but society is a bitch to label things.

Homosexuality or bisexuality does not just evolve around sex as a main course.
Look at it like any relationship, where there's care, concern, patience and love for your partner.
The only difference is you are in love with the similar gender.

It's just stereotypical to look at homosexuality at a planar sexual level.
I am unable to teach you how to look for bi guys, but for myself, I feel it through emotions.

I am currently attached to a guy, incidentally we first met was from here.
But we did not take the relationship on a sexual approach, and dated normally for half a year before even being together.

Take your time on this, there is never a rush to determine your own sexuality.
Understand yourself with an open heart and and open mind.
With that you will come to realise , most answers would reveal among the most unexpected people, at the most unexpected time, within the most unexpected places.

Most importantly you have to be true to yourself.

Good luck
*smile*