advice?

[avater159]

sorry if i word this wrong havent posted in a long time but here it goes. i can never get a relationship. ive had 3 in my life and im 16. im consederd the nerd type and the loner. i dont talk much nobody hardly ever notices im there i blend in with a croud. im also going bald which doesnt make things any better. i dont look at myself as attractive at all. got really low selfasteam to the point were i wana just die. ive tried and tried to talk to some of the girls at my school but nothing happens im just the loser. even the special ed kid holds hands with his gf and makes fun of me sometimes. i just wana here what u guys think am iactually attractive or not i want honesty and what should i do about being shy. and aslo would an online relationship be worth it? sorry about spelling im on my phone. thanks to all who reply

[dusman77]

Well it sounds like we're in the same boat, all except for the bald part. Sorry about that. Anyway, I'm not sure what to tell you. I kinda try to ignore it or try to find SOMEONE to talk to, even though I have nobody I talk to regularly until I found this site. Good luck, hope it works out for ya.

[Boss...]

I have always had trouble going up and talking to girls I hardly know. But, one thing that I have learned is that you need to be confident, when you go up to them introduce your self quick (just by first name) and start a conversation (be funny and cocky), maybe invite them to cruise with ya or go see a movie "just as friends".

But as for you being a bad looking guy, you ain't. It really doesn't matter how you look, its all about being confident and making them fall in love with you.

Hope this helps.:D

[FergusDunn]

Well if you dont talk much and just are kinda there - what can you expect.

But you have had 3 already so you can do it or at least start -

Maybe you just have to try a little more on how you see yourself.

[Stevo 69]

Lots of guys have this problem, they can't seem to land a relationship because of something that affects them, either physically or mentally. My friend is in a wheelchair due to having very fragile bones and weak muscles. When he decided to give up on girls, he met someone at an after-college get together and now he is the happiest he has ever been.

There is someone for everyone, just might take time sometimes.

[squibles976]

Not sure what advice I can give, talking to girls isn't much of a problem for me, it doesn't necessarily need to be flirting could talk about anything interesting get to know each other, and as for going bald Idk, I not going bald but I always buzz all my hair off and trim my beard into a chin strap so it looks half decent I guess

[iSwim95]

I am an asian kid in a town full of country white kids. I am considered extremely unattractive and I can barely talk to anyone in my school. I've gotten to the point where I have thought about suicide. I finallly found a girl thugh she loves me for me and doesn't care about my looks. I can be my weird self around her, I furt, I act questionably gay, I'm loud and obnoxious, I can be THE weirdest person in front of her and she still loves me. If you can muster up just enough courage to talk to girls one will like you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Trust me you'll find her.