Not Sure how to handle this

[chuck88w]

I'm 14 and was staying at a friends house (he is 15) over night. We were horseing around (wrestling and stuff), and he grabbed me from behind and I felt his dick through his shorts poking me .... he started grinding and breathing heavy and asked if it was okay to continue. I said I guessed and he pulled his shorts down and continued. I've seen him naked plenty of times, so that was not a big deal....but I had never seen him like this. He asked me if I wanted to experiment and jerk off with him and not sure what to really do, I said yes. We laid down on his bed and jerked each other off for a bit a then he gave me a blowjob...after we were done he said it was the best orgasm he ever had and hoped we might do it again. I wasn't uncomfortable with it...just seemed a bit weird at first. Does this mean I'm gay? I've been friends with this guy since we were 6...and I don't want to lose his friendship.

[Cavroche]

They keyword here is wasn't uncomfortable.

It doesn't mean you're gay it means you both are in an experimental phase, which is perfectly fine for boys at your age.
As long as both of you guys are comfortable with it (that's the important part), there's is nothing wrong with you or the situation.

[Stryker125]

as long as you're both cool with it, it's fine. sounds like normal curiosity and raging hormones.

[FergusDunn]

I'm 14 and was staying at a friends house (he is 15) over night. We were horseing around (wrestling and stuff), and he grabbed me from behind and I felt his dick through his shorts poking me .... he started grinding and breathing heavy and asked if it was okay to continue. I said I guessed and he pulled his shorts down and continued. I've seen him naked plenty of times, so that was not a big deal....but I had never seen him like this. He asked me if I wanted to experiment and jerk off with him and not sure what to really do, I said yes. We laid down on his bed and jerked each other off for a bit a then he gave me a blowjob...after we were done he said it was the best orgasm he ever had and hoped we might do it again. I wasn't uncomfortable with it...just seemed a bit weird at first. Does this mean I'm gay? I've been friends with this guy since we were 6...and I don't want to lose his friendship.


No not Gay - its usual for guys our age to experiment with others - just what that means really depends on the guys - you ve been long time buddies - its up to you know you know to allow or refuse anything to happen again -

[chuck88w]

I didn't tell him, but the feeling I had was pretty amazing too...it just seemed to come out of no where. He actually invited me over this weekend but I was hesitant at first because I'm kind of curious for it to happen again...but I don't want to push things.

[Cavroche]

It seems he's more pushing than you are, haha.

If you don't feel ok, don't agree. However, if you just feel uncertain because you're not sure, follow your gut feeling. He's a friend of yours and last time it felt ok. You draw your own conclusions.

[zerosix22]

Youre not comfy with it because you didnt know what was coming,u even answered yes to jacking off together.you experienced pleasure so u kinda liked it. If you were invited again this weekend then go for it if you like it or refuse if u dont. :)

[Sean4U]

it's totally normal for things like this to happen and since you were both comfortable with it...it is fine....just know that it should be a mutual agreement...not one sided, but you sound like you are interested and it is not necessarily gay at all...just a 14 yo enjoying a new experience and experimenting

[Xsjado95]

no its not gay. your just curious

[alexkun]

wow.. what an amazing story... congrats men.. and go on.. as long as both of you are ok with it... .. and send him a "hi five" from me :).. it takes a lot of courage to open to someone like that :D

[Tinker]

as long as you are comfortible with it i see nothing wrong and its not gay if you are experimenting

[Oukakystan95]

It doesnt mean your gay its just hormones and if you felt uncomfetable just dont do it again and tell your friend you were uncomfertable with it ... but in privet

[sdude]

It means he trusts in your friendship beyond the boyhood phase, you have probably trusted each other with secrets since you were six, and now you have something new to share. I hope it stays positive, but you need to share your feelings with him, both the enjoyment and the concerns...that's what true friendship is...

[revengekills]

Yeah dude, Live it up! We're young! Theres nothing about that, that makes you gay. It just means you guys are good friends. If he is willing to do that with you, it means hes open with your relationship. Have fun while you can cause once you become an adult i think thats "innapropreit"

-Coming from a fellow 15 year old :)

[Tonebone88]

It's not gay and its totally fine. As long as you are comfortable with the situation, there's no reason not to keep doing it. It sounded like an enjoyable experience.

[PrimedPenguin]

If your not uncomfortable with it then I don't see any reason to not do it again. Your not gay it's just a experimental your going through caused by raging hormones.

[Pyro99]

its totally normal for guys your age, i wish i was lucky enough to have someone do that to me:(

[GabAngel06]

If you were uncomfortable, you should stop immediately. And you're not gay. At least, not yet. But if you keep on "experimenting" with him or any other friends, you will be. The fact that you got aroused and ejaculated means that you were pleasured. So, I suggest you should keep your mind out of this and go on with what boys your age should do.

[Scottydog]

Its normal! It doesn't class you as gay:)!

[KrazyBoi95]

It does NOT mean your gay it just means your curious and you want to experiment with some things. I do the same thing with one of my best friends

[harsh]

if anything i feel like it'll make you closer of friends as long as that's not what happens every time
As long as you're okay with it have fun :)

[trystan10]

You are not gay! Your just experimenting and thats completly normal. And if you like it keep going

[xMr.CoolGuyx]

You're just curious, and experimenting. Doesn't make you gay at all!

[Joseph22]

just go with it, if it starts to ruin your relationship you just need to relax and take it one step at a time.

[ThatGuy69]

No that is cool it's just experimentation for both of you nothing wrong with it at all, just enjoy it

[chicohunter]

It doesn't mean you're gay. unless you think you are. Either way, you started to like it, so who cares? you are having fun

[ntc05]

It does NOT mean your gay it just means your curious and you want to experiment with some things. I do the same thing with one of my best friends

[cosmicpanda]

i would not say that is gay if you are exsperimenting but there is no need to worry if you enjoy it and so does he they there is no need to not do it and it can be fun so its up to how you both feel if u want to talk more message me

[cpkid09]

seems pretty normal. i had a friend that started out just pinching my nipples playfully but then it progressed into me giving him a bj haha