Homophobic Abuse

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Ok. So pretty much the most popular guy in my yeah now know's I'm gay. Downsides:


He's got loads of freinds who follow him like sheep.
He's a homophobe.


The upshot of this is that about a fifth of the year spent the whole day insulting me and I got tripped up four times. This sucks badly, and I've been promised a beating next week.

Any ideas?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I would go to a teacher or counselor, principal perhaps? They can help you.

[4IrishJustice]

Ya actually it's now a full fledged hate crime. It's pretty serious buisness.

Don't take shit for anything. And don't be scared to go to an authority because you're scared you mite look like a pansy or something. You need to protect yourself.

[Whisper]

ya hate crime
call the cops
press charges
make him squirm

[Maverick]

I agree that you need to tell someone with authority. That's the only way to stop. Go to your school administrators or even get the police involved. You do not deserve to put up with that but you have to make the step to tell someone so it can stop.

[byee]

Yup, it's unanimous. You need to tell someone in authority who can intervene here and protect you. And, this isnt a 'Gay' issue, it's simply wrong to threaten violence to anyone for anything. It's unacceptable, and it's illegal. At the very least, people are entitled to live.

Do yourself, and every other victim (or potential victim) of violence a favor and tell someone.

[Pighead]

Well lest see battery, threat of getting beat up= assult. Find out if their mparents have money, if they do take them all to court. Then live gay with a fat stack of cash.

Maybe this homophobe is actually gay and wants u?????

[Hyper]

School councilors and ppl like that can't really do shit.. Atleast they never do..

Just go straight to the cops I suppose

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Ok, I'm going to be telling a teacher first thing tommorow. Thanks guys.

[Maverick]

Good luck.

[xdeviancex]

My dad's homophobic, :\ it pisses me off.

But anyways good luck :\ sucky situation. Don't get mixed up into a more worse situation.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Let us all know how it turns out Infidel!:D

[BornActor]

they can get into a lot trouble for that
and its terrible that they would do such a thing but yeah i think you doin teh right thing by going to the councilor or even the principal.

[Ironic Infidel In England]

They've been suspended for three days. :)

Thanks for your help guys, glad it's sorted.

[Hyper]

They've been suspended for three days. :)

Thanks for your help guys, glad it's sorted.

Yeah I wan't to hear how your sorting goes, I seriously doubt it's all ''over'' because of a horrible punishment such as a 3 day suspension.. Now more likely he'll want to kick your ass

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Yeah I wan't to hear how your sorting goes, I seriously doubt it's all ''over'' because of a horrible punishment such as a 3 day suspension.. Now more likely he'll want to kick your ass

Well, if they attack him, that just means much longer suspension. They will learn eventually. Nice job Infidel!!!:D ( And best wishes to you:))

[Serenity]

They've been suspended for three days. :)

Thanks for your help guys, glad it's sorted.

Woohoo! :yeah: Good for you, Alex!

[Hyper]

Well, if they attack him, that just means much longer suspension. They will learn eventually. Nice job Infidel!!!:D ( And best wishes to you:))

Ok just in case, I get the right idea what is suspension in England

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Suspension means that they leave school, and cant come back until the suspension ends. So, if they are suspended for a week, they are gone from school for a week.

[Glasgow]

Well, you did the right thing. But they are going to seek revenge now, and it wont be pretty. So i suggest just trying your best to avoid them when they are back at school.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

...And invest in some self defense courses :D

Seriously, I was the kid at school that was nerdy and crazy and no one thought for a second that I could fend for myself. But learning some things over the summer, one of MY "problem people" started punching me in the face. Oh no.... I'm happy to say it was the first time I kicked some ass! And I got a lot more popular afterwards... especially with my lady friends. Well you can forget the last part- with your guy friends :D

Good Luck!

[northskater110]

im pretty sure that a hate crime known as gay bashing
u can sue and take him 2 court over it

[thenewguy]

Good job! Be careful, though, he might seek vengeance. Once, when i got pounded at school, i told someone and got the dude suspended, but he came back adn punded me again, o i got him suspended for longer and now hes terrified to come near me :yeah:

[oscaryu1]

Ok. So pretty much the most popular guy in my yeah now know's I'm gay. Downsides:


He's got loads of freinds who follow him like sheep.
He's a homophobe.


The upshot of this is that about a fifth of the year spent the whole day insulting me and I got tripped up four times. This sucks badly, and I've been promised a beating next week.

Any ideas?

Who cares if you gay? Seriously. I'm just like you [except the gay part, no offense]. Smallest guy in my group. 1 year younger. What can you do? Fight back. Let them pick on you, they'll continue. Just because you showed them that you let them do so. Telling on an teacher isn't gonna make things better. Fight back for once. I'm lucky no one beats me up beacuse of my martial arts. No, seriouly. I have 2 years in Tae Kwon Do, and 2 years in Jujitsu and Judo. First year in Kung Fu right now.

Fight back... "Dont mess with ME". Yell that at them. After that, charge back. Rebel. Don't watch yourself get beat up.

[The Batman]

i think he might scared hes gay so he pics on you to prove to his friends he's not catch him alone and i promise it'll be different

[Never_Forget]

I'm sorry but, you let him insult you without fighting back? -.- Just the other day in PSHE my form tutor told us that some kids in year 9 had been calling each other gay and one turned round and said "Why, dya fancy me?" And that shut them up. If I was in your shoes I'd snoop around until I found something that would really wound him deep, and then rub salt into the wound by bullying him and see how HE likes it! (And no I'm not talking about weapons, I mean something that hurts a hell of a lot more. Emotional pain. Find his weakness and use it against him. But then again I'm bitter like that ^^)

[western ninja]

authority seems to be the key word here....

[Skittlez1313]

Thats awful
I wish you luck

[thesphinx]

Skittlez please don't bump old threads.
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