Leg stroking

[Cycling Penguin]

On the school bus today I was sitting next my friend,age 14. He has his shorts on having just had PE. We were both looking at his iPad and I couldn't resit touching his les with my hand as I touched his iPad. At one stage he noticed and asked why I was touching his thigh but apart from that he isn't notice me touching his leg.

Is this wrong or weird?
Do you ever touch anyone's bare body in a round about sort of way without harm noticing?
Do yo think the two year age gap makes me a sort of paedo?

[Sir Suomi]

Well, I think you shouldn't be touching him like that, unless of coarse he likes it. And with touching other people, when I was dating this one girl, we'd both kind of rub each other's inner thighs, sometime's going a little higher when we felt a little naughty. But to anyone else, if you don't include accidental bumps and grabs, no.

[Cycling Penguin]

Thanks but I was hoping for more than one reply

[FergusDunn]

I d not think its so much an age thing - contact lie as you describe is either ok with somebody or its not - so maybe you touching his leg was ok - and his thigh not ok -

I say maybe cos we dont really know the guy or you so maybe you were in fact totally wrong and he felt bad.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, I think you shouldn't be touching him like that, unless of coarse he likes it. And with touching other people, when I was dating this one girl, we'd both kind of rub each other's inner thighs, sometime's going a little higher when we felt a little naughty. But to anyone else, if you don't include accidental bumps and grabs, no.

Yeah, I agree.
You shouldn't touch anybody unless they allow you to, they might think you're weird if you do that.

To answer the other part of your question, no you're not a pedo, a 2 year age difference isn't much at all.

[DerBear]

I don't or wouldn't want to feel my friends up as they'd think its a little weird and I don't like being touched by my friends either so we respect each others personal space. However, I think for some people it is just natural curiosity and you have nothing to worry about. Honestly, people do these things. Although I'd avoid doing it often I mean really it can be weird if done to often to one friend and you need to respect his space. I know this sounds a little double edged here as I said it is curiosity, but you do need to respect your friend and let him be if he says something.

[StoppingTime]

1. You're not a pedophile. The word pedophile literally means a person who is sexually attracted to children, and is interpreted in today to mean an older person (generally 20+) attracted to children/young teens.
2. Is this wrong/weird? Yea, I'd have to say a little. It's really not right to touch or "stroke" others, as you said, unless you're given permission. It's an invasion of their privacy and comfort, and I think you'd ought to stop.
3. Would I? Never.

[mustangboi]

I have done this two and acted like that I didn't even realize I was doing it

[LouBerry]

Just respect other peoples personal space, they might get the wrong idea.

[Cycling Penguin]

Thanks all