Breaking Up

[lhatchy1]

So I met this girl, I thought she was the one, but more and more into our relationship I am doubting it, and have less and less feelings.

I don't want to hurt her, as not trying to be harsh, she is very attached.

[Gandalf]

Be honest with her, share your feelings and give her an oppurtunity to share her's too, try and do this face to face as it's probably fairest for both of you.

[Noirtier]

So I met this girl, I thought she was the one, but more and more into our relationship I am doubting it, and have less and less feelings.

I don't want to hurt her, as not trying to be harsh, she is very attached.

If you want to break up with her, rule number one is to do it in person. It's only fair to her, and common courtesy to her. Now, as for how to do it, sit down with her and be honest. Tell her that you don't think things are working out, over time you feel that the attraction and spark just had been fading away, and you would prefer it if you two broke up. Be sure to let her share her thoughts with you, but don't give in and keep going out with her just because she cries or tries to guilt you into it--if that happens. Because not only is that not fair to you, but in the end it's not fair to her to be going out with someone who doesn't really like her anymore. It sounds like you've pretty much got your mind made up that you want to break up with her. Now you just have to get out there and do it, as hard as it's going to be.

[lhatchy1]

I mean, i'm not 100%, I could be just having a phase. But thanks so much. Rep <3

[lhatchy1]

Turns out it was a phase.