Curious?

[JackMiller341]

first off this is not about me it's kinda about everyone.

I read a lot of posts and many of the explanations for things are "you're just curious". My question is, when does curiosity cross the line?

[jacksonthelan]

when something ends in a bum? well thats for me hehe

[ExhibitG]

I agree. I do think a lot of times on this forum people have been trained to say "oh you're just curious" when in fact someone may be bisexual, or at least what's called a bedroom bi haha. To me, having intercourse with the same sex and enjoying it crosses the curiosity line. Any type of emotional attraction does as well. Doing anything more than a few times with the same sex and enjoying it, especially as years start to pass, should not be labeled as mere curiosity.

[IAMWILL]

I think emotional attraction or anal sex definitely crosses the line for curious, but also repeated acts of "experimentation" crosses the line too. Like if a guy and his friend blow each other every other week or something for like 3 years then I wouldn't call that being curious anymore. 2 or 3 times is okay, and maybe if its with another person its okay, but otherwise I don't think you can still be curious after you've done all that.

[TigerBoy]

I think emotional attraction or anal sex definitely crosses the line for curious, but also repeated acts of "experimentation" crosses the line too. Like if a guy and his friend blow each other every other week or something for like 3 years then I wouldn't call that being curious anymore. 2 or 3 times is okay, and maybe if its with another person its okay, but otherwise I don't think you can still be curious after you've done all that.

Exactly. If you try stuff out because you are horny that's one thing. If you keep doing it because its all you have access to, then ok. But if you fantasize about guys regularly, get turned on by cute guys and all that stuff - it all adds up to suggest you like guys.

The thing that makes it hard for some guys to accept is all the negative views from society (many of whom are damned rude and nosey about stuff that's none of their business).

If you do what you enjoy and don't hurt anyone else, you really don't need to lose sleep about labels (including "experimenting" , "curious" as well as the usual "gay" and "bi" stuff).

[dingo006]

i think labels are bullshit. I think you can be "curious" if you dont want a relationship but just like trying stuff out. For some of those kids it is a phase but so always enjoys a bit of extra curricular good time. I mean id say im straight because ive never wanted an emotional relationship with a boy but ive had a great time chillin with friends and exploring stuff. If it feels good do it and worry about the label later.

If you end up wanting to date a boy you aint curious anymore.

[Lost in the Echo]

I think emotional attraction or anal sex definitely crosses the line for curious, but also repeated acts of "experimentation" crosses the line too. Like if a guy and his friend blow each other every other week or something for like 3 years then I wouldn't call that being curious anymore. 2 or 3 times is okay, and maybe if its with another person its okay, but otherwise I don't think you can still be curious after you've done all that.

Yeah, I agree completely.

Messing around with someone of the same gender a few times can be considered curiosity, but doing it several times and/or developing an emotional attraction to someone of the same gender is more than just curiosity, that person is no longer curios because they know what they like.

[FergusDunn]

I thin when there is is more emotional contact really but this is one thing that depends on the boys involved and each feels

so its inda different for all - really

[aldabanana]

For me I think it crosses the line when you develop an emotional attachment to the same sex. Like for me, I know I'm going to have a wife for sure, but I'm still curious...

[Steven_123]

Curiosity Crosses the line when you ask/pay/beg etc for a guy to do sexual acts with you or to you. That's where I stand on this curiosity point.

[DerBear]

I'd like to point out that while I really have never been curious about the same sex I do have an opinion on this.

Before I came onto these forums. Basically every single act to do with sex was in my eyes considered gay. I do believe that to an extent. Like if two guys fool around with each other in their teenage years and do some minor stuff, I personally don't think that is gay or anything like that. Its just hormones, curiosity and discovering.

However

If they develop an emotional attraction or every two days they have anal sex or give each other BJs then I don't think that is curiosity anymore.

[Wambambam]

I don't think there is a line to be crossed more about the feeling of being satisfied enough to lose interest or perhaps take the curiosity to the next level.

[ukadam]

To give the typical non-helpful answer, it all depends on you. As an individual you need to set your lines, and stick to them. Personally, the limit of curiosity in my eyes, would be after your repeatdly engage in sexual acts with the same gender. For example if you blow a guy once or twice that could be considered curiousiity, however like others have said if you have continued, you are either bi or gay. But, all it is a label, and I wouldn't get caught up over it!

[average teen]

I agree. I do think a lot of times on this forum people have been trained to say "oh you're just curious" when in fact someone may be bisexual, or at least what's called a bedroom bi haha. To me, having intercourse with the same sex and enjoying it crosses the curiosity line. Any type of emotional attraction does as well. Doing anything more than a few times with the same sex and enjoying it, especially as years start to pass, should not be labeled as mere curiosity.
this..

[xMr.CoolGuyx]

When something major happens. Like pee-pee in the bum major..

[alexkun]

when it becomes a routine.. when you just did it, and cant wait to do it again... and finally. when you realize how comfortable you are doing what ever you were curious about.. thats it.. do whatever you want as long as you are ok with it. :yes: