i'm so confused

[myponyjoey]

I didn't know where to put this so i started here...
I've been sexually harassed for 3 (going on 4) years now by the same guy... i have to sit next to him in English because of how our last names fall...since i haven't told and adult i cant just ask to be moved...i decided when scheduling comes i would talk to my counsler about making sure we don't have any common classes... but the other day he called me some pretty vulgar stuff and that night i had a dream that i lost it and beat him up in the middle of class... I'm pretty sure that's not normal and it's never happened before...why now...and why? What should i do? I'm so confusedd :/

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

I didn't know where to put this so i started here...
I've been sexually harassed for 3 (going on 4) years now by the same guy... i have to sit next to him in English because of how our last names fall...since i haven't told and adult i cant just ask to be moved...i decided when scheduling comes i would talk to my counsler about making sure we don't have any common classes... but the other day he called me some pretty vulgar stuff and that night i had a dream that i lost it and beat him up in the middle of class... I'm pretty sure that's not normal and it's never happened before...why now...and why? What should i do? I'm so confusedd :/

I dont know why no one commented... But if its been 3 almost 4 years of this tell someone! Councilor, parent, someone! And if you dreamed about beating him up, I wouldnt blame you. Hes verbally abusing you and its wrong! Youre angry and your dreams reflect that. You gotta talk to someone though so it can be dealt with cause its not okay hes doing this.

[Zman21]

This guy sounds like he is just trying to be tough and wants to look like the better man (which he will never be). I wouldn't let anything he say get to you. I deffinetly feel that you need to tell somebody that you can trust or else things may just get worse. However, I know this can be very tough and you may feel like you can't tell anyone. Try standing up to him in public. Don't get into a fight or anything but tell him that you don't give a **** what he says and could care less about his opinion etc. But if you do this you can't be nervous or else he'll turn the situation on you so be careful. But like I said, the best thing you can do is tell someone. If you do it's not like you're tattletaleing, you're just trying to stand up for yourself like you need to do.

[Texas warrior]

Tell some one, he'll be the one in trouble not you.

[its.me.akshay]

Hear one thing...every bullies are cowards... And only cowards do such things... Its different being muscular and being a bully... And what that guy does is not right... Get it to the attention of some elders... Theyd help for sure...

[Mortal Coil]

This is a tricky situation. As much as I agree that he is totally in the wrong and his behavior is abominable, not all school administrations are similar and the school might not do much in the way of intervention. It all depends on how you think they will react. May I ask what you've tried to do about this so far?

[its.me.akshay]

This is a tricky situation. As much as I agree that he is totally in the wrong and his behavior is abominable, not all school administrations are similar and the school might not do much in the way of intervention. It all depends on how you think they will react. May I ask what you've tried to do about this so far?

and i go with you!! She has to do something to try nd stop him.. Sitting idly wont help at all...