View Full Version : Was he being nice or was he interested?
musicfuryu
November 21st, 2012, 09:04 PM
So, I went to this music conference where you connect with other musicians. I was talking to this musician guy while we were lining up for a conference(not randomly although he spoke to me first while we were next to each other). Even after we stopped speaking for a while, he would sometimes just smile at me or he would stare at me in silence for a while even when we had nothing to say. After that, we would continue talking. He did give me his calling card but I didn't give him my contact info(I just met him). He told me that he was a manager and that he would have managed me if he was not managing his band(he did not even hear me sing). I was surprised because he never even heard me sing or anything.I guess he was just thinking that maybe I had the "looks" for the music industry. It really struck me when he said that and I did not know if he was being irregularly nice or if was interested in me?
Gandalf
November 21st, 2012, 10:04 PM
I think since you just met, that he was trying it on, now I don't know how old you are (which might help) but I think you did the right thing in not giving him your contact details.
Sorry I couldn't be more help :)
DerBear
November 22nd, 2012, 05:10 PM
I think since you just met, that he was trying it on, now I don't know how old you are (which might help) but I think you did the right thing in not giving him your contact details.
Sorry I couldn't be more help :)
To add to Gandalf's answer.
I think he might of been trying it on with you. I mean I don't think he intended it to be any kind of relationship. He was probably just wanting to use you. I mean okay we have all heard of love at first sight but really....one conversation....I dunno, just seems a little sketchy if you ask me.
You did the right thing by not giving your contact info out. I mean after all 1 conversation with a guy you don't even know doesn't Warrant giving out your contact information.
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