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[ReverseFall]

A have a huge need to hurt myself really badly and a huge urge to have sex...at the same time?

what the hell.. how am i supposed to deal with this???

[ackmedsgirl666]

if i were you i would have the sex to avoid the risk of harming yourself
its a good distraction..

[ReverseFall]

i broke up with my gf 5 days ago bcuz of me cutting and the way i acted scared her so not really an option

[Noirtier]

Try and distract yourself from BOTH urges in any way you can. Read a book, watch tv, watch a movie, do some art or write (both good ways to get your feelings out), etc. There's plenty of other things you can do as well. Both of those urges you are having can be unhealthy. Now, yes, there is nothing wrong with the urge to have sex. But to give in to the point where one just goes out and does it with whatever moves is not safe, not wise, and not advisable in any account. Self harm is not a healthy solution to any problem, nor is it a healthy coping mechanism, either. It may not be a bad idea to see a therapist about it either, to see what may have triggered or caused these sudden desires in your life. Please know that I'm not saying sex is bad, because it's not. It's just something that should be done with some caution and control, rather than freely with anyone who asks.