Cousin.

[Milo141]

I just came back from my aunt and uncles house and while I was round there, my cousin wanted to talk to me in private. He asked me to teach him how to masturbate, he seemed pretty embarrassed about it, I didn't have much time there so I didn't really help him with it. Should I help him pr let him figure it out for himself. Also he's 11 with no older siblings.

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

well its really up to you, you could do it with no innapropriate touching or anything like that, or you just dont do it and let him figure it out on his own. you dont necessarily need an older sibling to learn, i personally figured it out on my own but its up to you. if you feel that your relationship will not change from that and if your up to it, show him how to do it with out anything sexual, or if you dont really mind, demonstrate but i personally wouldn't if it was my cousin, also because of his age, how old are you?

[Milo141]

well its really up to you, you could do it with no innapropriate touching or anything like that, or you just dont do it and let him figure it out on his own. you dont necessarily need an older sibling to learn, i personally figured it out on my own but its up to you. if you feel that your relationship will not change from that and if your up to it, show him how to do it with out anything sexual, or if you dont really mind, demonstrate but i personally wouldn't if it was my cousin, also because of his age, how old are you?

Thanks for the advice, I might let him figure it out for himself, like I did, or I might tell him to check the Internet. I'm 15, so it would be weird to show him physically. Thanks.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Help a man out!

[Sph2015]

I'd just let him figure it out. He'll learn eventually Lol.

[appel1234]

i think u shoould teach him

[Stryker125]

give him the link to jackinworld.com. It'll answer just about ever question he might have about masturbation. It's all informative and educational, so there's nothing to worry about and after he checks it out, he should get the hang of it.

[frankrocky]

You should help your cousin out. He asked for help so you should give him enough advise that he can get the job done. You don't have to touch him, you can just give him enough instructions that he can get to the end results.

[Coolboi]

he's only 11 an your a lot older maybe if you were closer in age wouldnt be so bad. so let him find it he will or talk to him an explain it but not showing him .

[Foamy]

Yea, if you want to show him use online resources. He's a little too young for you to show him physically. Also, the way that you said e was embarrassed about asking you makes it seem that he's just a little too young or immature. You should wait unless he starts to pester you about it.

[vernon]

You should help your cousin out. He asked for help so you should give him enough advise that he can get the job done. You don't have to touch him, you can just give him enough instructions that he can get to the end results.

i agree

[Luke91]

He came to you for a reason. He trusts you. Since he has no older brother, he turned to you. Why world you not help him out? If he is old enough to ask the question, he is old enough to get an answer.

[dingo006]

just tell him in detail and use a lot of hand movements if you are uncomfortable showing him. dont do something you are uncomfortable with.

[Sean4U]

all good advise...jacking world and other sites would help IF he can access them....he trusts you and probably is curious because of your age difference on your size, as well....but because of the difference I'd be careful and consider this real carefully b4 you do it...he'll learn if you tell him what to do ....it is something that is pretty much in our genes :D

[Inventor2]

Just teach him. Get it over with it and he'll thank you latter haha.

[Houtz96]

If it was me, I would tell him, not show him, how to do it. Considering he must of been embarrassed to just ask you, reward him; it must of taken a lot. I'd be pretty dumped if he mustered up all the courage to ask and all you say is "no".

If you also feel awkward, I would agree to introducing him to sites that educationally explain what happens, and all that jazz. But that relies on the fact if he can access a site like that, and if he is smart enough to delete his history.

All in all, I wouldn't just leave him hanging on the subject. Just tell him some pointers and push him in the right direction.

[highway814boy98]

i learned at 11 but i had older friends and internet aha

[Slim Jimmy]

i thnk that you can tell him, but just dont show him yet

[Stig]

You should help him out and show him how. That's my opinion. He asked you so you should.

[SamB]

Do what you are comfortable with, you could tell him how to do it, show him, or just let him figure it out, being 11 he will find out sooner or later anyway so it is up to you

[Backflipboy]

I would avoid showing him physically because of his age, the fact is that everybody learns how to do it from instinct. If he wants to know how to do it then the chances are he isn't physically able to.

[FergusDunn]

I guess this all depends on you and your relationships

But maybe he is not ready to yet.

[BoyTeen1997]

If you are comfortable about helping him, then have at it.

[AwesomeGuy15]

ur decision on how u want him to learn

[alexkun]

yeah... why not.. he will surely enjoy it :D... he is going to find out anyway.. and its always better if he learns from someone he knows..

[crashing]

tell/show him what you want to. Any advice, or tips, or information you can give him will be a help

[zerosix22]

Teach him if you think he wants it.theres no need for touching and showing if you feel weird about it.

[average teen]

thats kinda young to start.. but i mean do as you please. he wont actually ejaculate for awhile.

[aldabanana]

I would just let him figure it out, but if you are going to teach him teach him everything like sex ed and stuff. Don't just teach him how to jack off and let him be...

[xMr.CoolGuyx]

Tell him he has to learn on his own. Tell him to go on the interweb.

[wish_master_TWA]

Personally, I'd help him with it because he should learn from someone he trusts :D I'm probably going to have to teach my little brother when he is old enough :whoops:

[curiousme]

Yeah it should be ok if u teach him how to masturbate, he asked u about it meaning he trusts you. Unless you feel uncomfortable doing it dont but if ur ok with it do it cause he will figure it out anyways so might as well help him out

[dmb1996]

I'd teach him.

[mustangboi]

tell him to use google

[appel1234]

show him i know i would have appreciated it if some one had taught me insted of not finding out till i was like 2 getting ready to turn 13 so just help him out on this one

[racin20h]

I hope my cousin asks for my help...

[Syler]

Help him

[ULeon]

This really depends on you, if you feel comfortable explaining to him. go ahead and do it. It sounds like he really trusts you, and likes to hear your advice.

[ThatGuy69]

You should help him, he is just curious

[Throwaway24]

I would help him out

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump old threads. :locked: