Weird disturbing turn on!

[Aidoon123]

Ok so i have a girlfriend and am interested in girls. But there are these utter ass holes in my school ( my year ) and they turn me on so much even if i hate them to the core. What the hell is this!!! This is an all guys school btw CONFUSION!!! :( Help!

[Wheatley]

Aha I can somewhat relate to this. Its annoying though because I follow this instinct and it only leads to me getting hurt one way or another. I would say just generally try to find (or make up) something about them that is a real turn off and focus on that. Or just distract yourself completely from them, focus on your girlfriend say?

PS. If you find something else that helps, please share!

[Aidoon123]

Believe me wheatley i am not going to follow this instinct it would be social suicide. I just imagine him sometimes which helps but its such an over powering urge that you just wanna punce on the stirs.... Sigh. Still i need help!!

[Wheatley]

Only other thing I can suggest from experience is to JO more. Usually that suppresses any urges I have....

[Aidoon123]

Yeah i suppose but ya know its annoying to be sitting in class him right there. Cant stop stareing! The only thing that does stop me puncing his reembering how much of an ass he is i hate him so much but want him so badly. Horomone dilema crisis!!!

[branman2000]

the only reason i can see why you would be turned on is if you like the idea of aggressive sexual stuff. maybe the anger you have for him makes you want him b/c you like the aggressive side. idk. i maybe completely off, but its just what i thought might be it.

[Backflipboy]

I used to be physically attracted to the idiots at my school, probably because I was fascinated by the idea of rough sex with a "bad boy". It wears off when you realise how much of a dick they would be in the long run.

[Syler]

I think it is normal in moderation...just like one dude

[deanbrodi]

Sounds like they have extremely good looks, but awful personalities.

[Jakeisamazing]

Focus on your gf. Relationships are awesome distractions from life :)

[Troy35216]

do you get turned on cuz they are really hot but they are also assholes or do you get turned BECAUSE they are assholes? if it's the first one, then it's the same as being turned on by a hot girl who is a bitch I guess. you can jerk off to her without marrying her. lol but if you are turned on cuz of the way they act maybe you are into being dominated or something like that. some kind of fetish or something. check out that kind of porn and see if that does more for you than regular porn i guess.

[ULeon]

do you get turned on cuz they are really hot but they are also assholes or do you get turned BECAUSE they are assholes? if it's the first one, then it's the same as being turned on by a hot girl who is a bitch I guess. you can jerk off to her without marrying her. lol but if you are turned on cuz of the way they act maybe you are into being dominated or something like that. some kind of fetish or something. check out that kind of porn and see if that does more for you than regular porn i guess.


I could not have said it better myself

[Alec0987]

nope

[xaydavis]

Yeah i have a prob with that now

[PinkFloyd]

Trust me, man. It's your hormones. I have the same girlfriend for literally 2 years and really like her but there's this other girl that is a complete bitch, but I would like to do "unspeakable things" to...