In love with my sister

[Spiceweasel]

I need advice please don't judge me. I am a 19 year old male and my sister is 18. We are very close. Recently we have become even closer and we kissed each other passionately. Too cut a long story short my sister says she loves me and wants to be in a sexual relationship with me, I also feel this way. I want to know what the risks are of having sex with my sister. If we do it we will use contraception, is this enough?

[Lost in the Echo]

The risks are having some fucked up babies! All mutated and shit!

Incest is wrong for a reason, not just the fucked up babies part, but think how your parents/relatives would feel if you were in a relationship with your SISTER, a sexual one at that.

Don't do it, you're supposed to love your family, but not like this!

Don't do anything sexual with your sister, or any crazy shit, it will lead to a fucked up and judgmental life.
Like I said, incest is considered wrong for several reasons, don't do anything with your sister.

[Danny_boi 16]

Inbreeding can be very harmful to the offspring.

Socially you will be judge by others around you, and seen as a weird person, an outcast in society.

You can always love your sister, but in the way you love you mother, aunt, grandmother, etc.

[dingo006]

Crushes are normal but to act on them can mess up your life later. Be careful.

[FreeFall]

Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuugh! It's so damn hard to reserve my judgement but I'll ignore it and give you advice.

You're both consenting adults. Don't tell anyone about your amazing sibling sex.
You both came from the same sperm and uterus, designed to created and breed, and since you both are somehow stuck on breeding without the family, go ahead. Too hard to find someone outside of the gene pool, if it doesn't work out with your sister than go ahead and find if you mom or grandmother are willing. They're experienced anyways.
Go have sex and be brother sister fuck buddies and then drink some moonshine up in the hills with Uncle Clem and get yourself a hog for the fall (whoops I lied).

Can you see yourself happy like this for the rest of your life? You can't marry her. Family functions are going to suck. If you have kids, they risk mutations but they will be outcast. They'll be their own cousin, you'll be Daddy-Unlce and your sister will be Mommy-Aunt. They won't get the joy of Grandparents that'll love them. They won't get the joy of playing with other kids that can accept they've got Sibling Parents. Your friends will slowly vanish in the "oh god his fucking his sister" mentality. If you two decide to remain childless, will you be willing to get a vasectomy for her or will she be willing to have a hysterectomy? Can you see yourself happy?

You can't keep something like this a secret either way, sorry have said that you could. She in her giddy state will tell her friends she's having amazing sex with an amazing guy she's literally known since she's been born. They'll just be lucky she's referring to you and not her dad. It will come to surface and you'll find yourselves virtually alone, and literally only have each other.

Even if you two end the relationship, that stigma will remain. You'll be known as the guy that fucked his sister, people are probably going to assume your mom has sex with her dad or you dad has sex with his brother. They'll just assume your whole family has sex within themselves and that's how you and your sister came to learn it. Your family will have to cut themselves from you in hopes of saving their own names and appearance. Could you see yourself with a happy life knowing that you and your sister have accidentally drug the family with you in the mud of social stigma? Can you see yourself happy that your family has to disown you?

But you both are consenting adults. Just don't be stupid and be sensible.

[Spiceweasel]

Thanks everyone.

Why is it such a big deal if our kids are deformed? Lots of people who aren't related have deformed kids, why pick on us? If people with genetic diseases can have kids why can't we?

We won't tell our parents how we feel until we are ready to come out as a couple. My sister is so beautiful I can't think of anyone else I want to make love with. I want to spend my life with her.



Socially you will be judge by others around you, and seen as a weird person, an outcast in society.


Who is in the wrong then, me or society? Society judges gay people and they haven't done anything wrong. Society needs to change to accept me and my sister.

[iSwim]

LOOK AT MY REPLY IT MAY HELP!!!!!
My personal opinion would be that it would be wrong but disregarding my opinion i have some logical input as well because i am an open minded person.

In history there were many royal families who had relations not only because they were in love but to keep the bloodline pure. Also yes it can have adverse effects if you were to have children but they aren't going yo be QUOTE] some fucked up babies! All mutated and shit! [/QUOTE]" as Bocefus98 had stated. The thing that cause these deformities are the sharing of same genes "double dipping" as it were. There can be deformities but it is unlikely unless you two share a gene that if very distinct and strong in your DNA but it is likely your children would be very unpredictable in their emotions due to the "double dipping" Basically what I'm trying to say is deformities could happen but probably won't. The reason you see deformed inbred children is from generations of inbreeding.

But love is love who are we to judge you. In the past it was very common for siblings to have relations and it was normal by if you two are in love have at it, but be prepared to face the social consequences because it is still frowned upon, but look at it this way homosexuals are friends upon but it doesn't stop then to love each other. We can't judge you but its you that has to decide if its right or not.

Hope this helped.

[Danny_boi 16]

I'm going to detract my last post.

You may love whom ever you want. In my personal opinion I think its wrong, but I'm kinda open minded, do what ever you want i shall not control your life. But society will not always accept people life. So all I wish to say is prepare yourself.

[Jackerlus]

Go ahead, as long as you cope with kids with lots of problems (maybe meaning a lot of money spent on healthcare), a ton of shit thrown at you from society, and possible isolations from your family. Maybe talk to them about how they feel about incest (without giving hints), then read up on the Internet about it, like possible deformations of future children. Please make the choice that seems right to you, and be properly informed on the subject :)

[lhatchy1]

In all fairness, Adam and Eve made us through incest.

[racin20h]

If it is what you want then go for it. Best to keep it to yourselves for now. I can relate

[Zoe16]

Go for it--have fun

[Stronk Serb]

Thanks everyone.

Why is it such a big deal if our kids are deformed? Lots of people who aren't related have deformed kids, why pick on us? If people with genetic diseases can have kids why can't we?

We won't tell our parents how we feel until we are ready to come out as a couple. My sister is so beautiful I can't think of anyone else I want to make love with. I want to spend my life with her.



Who is in the wrong then, me or society? Society judges gay people and they haven't done anything wrong. Society needs to change to accept me and my sister.


Dude, in some countries incest is illegal. I will give you many reasons why you two should not be in a relationship.
1. Probably illegal with direct siblings in your country.
2. The baby will have double chances of genetically inherited diseases (even if you wanted it or not)
3. You will be made outcasts, people will judge you.
4. Your family will probably disown you, to wash the dirt off of it.
5. If it was normal, all of us would be mutants which would not look like baseline humans. Your sister would not have been that beautiful if your dad had sex with his sister.
6. You will not be able to legally marry her.
7. If you have a child, it will have smaller physical and intellectual capabilities.
8. Your friends will leave you.
9. You will both go to jail if the authorities find out.
10. Genetic purity (no same bloodline mixing) your family will be compromised.
PS: If you want t know, some parts of the knee joints can not be developed by inbreeding.

[Jules97]

First of all, move out of Kentucky...lol, kidding...don't attack me KY people.

But in all seriousness, get over yourself, you're 19, move out, go to college...

...leave little sis alone.

[Stronk Serb]

In all fairness, Adam and Eve made us through incest.

The writer of the Bible hints that there were other humans there, something related to the banishment of Kain I think. If we are made through incest, why is it frowned upon by Christians and not venerated?

[ackmedsgirl666]

DONT ACT ON HOW YOU FEEL.. LIKE EVERYBODY HAS ALREADY STATED IF YOU HAVE BABIES THEY WILL BE BORN WITH PROBLEMS...and imagine how people would judge you... like family... this is the 21st century and now a days stuff like that doesnt happen anymore... if you have a crush then fine... but dont act on it.,.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Guessing youre maybe in the US... If not, in the US that is incest, it is illegal. Also sex with a sibling or someone of close relation unless you talk 2nd, 3rd cousins... You run the problem of the DNA being so close it can lead to birth defects and major issues. Plus its kinda weird... Cousins, well weird but if its not 1st, its okay. My niece does or did have a crush on me, shes 3 years younger than me. I just act like its not there, I love her alot and shes a wonderful girl, were very close and we talk alot. But you cant act on feeling in this case, you should love your sister but not in a romantic way. I love my niece cause shes family, like a little sister to me too. Think it through.

[Texas warrior]

That whole mutated baby thing only happens after many generations of incest. Incest in and of it's self is not wrong. Sositys rules say it's wrong, but just because it is against the norm does not mean it is wrong. But that dont meen it's right ether.

[leafgreenangel]

Ehhh... I personally think it will have to many social consequences. Also how will you explain to your kid that your sister is your wife. Will you have a problem if he loves his sister in the same way because then you could start a chain of incest.

[Hunter_Steel]

Dude, go for it. If you love your sister, you are free to do as you wish. No one has the right to say no. There are places in the world that incest with your sister is legal. (Spain for instance) You could get legally married in Spain if you wish.

Love is love. you cannot stop who want to love. And you cannot say no the fact that you love her.

In the terms of children, scientists are developing Blank DNA for the very purpose you have instituted.

That will sort out any of the deformities and the child would end up not being directly related to you anymore. The child would have started their own gene pool and thus would mean the child is not related to anyone.

~Hunter

[isaiah1038]

the risks are having some fucked up babies! All mutated and shit!

Incest is wrong for a reason, not just the fucked up babies part, but think how your parents/relatives would feel if you were in a relationship with your sister, a sexual one at that.

Don't do it, you're supposed to love your family, but not like this!

Don't do anything sexual with your sister, or any crazy shit, it will lead to a fucked up and judgmental life.
Like i said, incest is considered wrong for several reasons, don't do anything with your sister.
bro you don't have to be fucked up about saying it!!!!

[isaiah1038]

Thanks everyone.

Why is it such a big deal if our kids are deformed? Lots of people who aren't related have deformed kids, why pick on us? If people with genetic diseases can have kids why can't we?

We won't tell our parents how we feel until we are ready to come out as a couple. My sister is so beautiful I can't think of anyone else I want to make love with. I want to spend my life with her.



Who is in the wrong then, me or society? Society judges gay people and they haven't done anything wrong. Society needs to change to accept me and my sister.

There are MANY cases where incest leads to children who die of mutations.
But, love is love....

[Ryhanna]

If you both understand the health and social risks and still want to be together, go for it. You're both consenting adults, so it's your decision.

Talk with her about the risks, though. Talk about how your family and friends might react, talk about how it would affect your life. If you discuss this and both still want to go through with it, then fine.

[darthearth]

let's stop saying sibling sex is wrong and start encouraging responsibility with it. Yes, I think if you use contraception that is enough. I also think society has an opening here for more adoptions. I personally think many of the alternative relationships nowadays may be very helpful for unwanted children if people would just get over the ancient religious morality issues.