straight but sexually and emotionally attracted to friend

[jacob.riley]

I have until now considered myself straight. I love hanging around girls, i love them to death, i find them sexually and emotionally attractive, but then i saw my team mate in the shower. He had a perfect penis and perfect balls, and that made me super horny. i think he is also gay which makes me feel even more excited because i wanna have sex with him or fool around with him. i guess i am emotionally and sexually attracted to him. But i also like girls? Is this just horomones acting up on me, has anyone else experianced this? to be quite honest i hope hes gay so we can go out or something then mess around but then i look at my girl crushes and i think.... what am i doing? im only turning 14 in a month. I think what i really want is to have sex with him. Has any other straight male felt these feelings before? thanks guys! :)

[RunnerForLife]

Well with how young you are it could definitely just be hormones but if it gets more serious you might just be bi cause you like girls so much. Just something to think about (:

[West Coast Sheriff]

This sounds too serious to just be hormones acting in. What I believe I you are a selective panasexual.. You are mostly attracted to a certain sex(girls) but you are attracted to you friend as well. I hope you figure this all out and everything turns out for the best.

[IAMWILL]

Well I'd go as far as to call you bisexual as of now, but it also very much depends on how exactly you like this guy. Would you date him in a completely non-sexual way? If so, yeah I'd say your bisexual. If not though, I wouldn't jump fully to it yet. Teenage guys, especially more towards the beginning of puberty, get turned on by just about any type of sex, and a lot of guys find that they feel sexually attracted to guys their age. This certainly doesn't alone make you gay/bi however, it takes a large combination of things to declare that. Think about this for awhile, could you see yourself really dating this guy, not just to mess around? You may find you only want to be with him for sexual stuff, and if thats the case I wouldn't call you bi. Or you may find you would like to be with him regardless of any sexual stuff, and in that situation I probably would say you are bi. Only time and your self evaluation will tell.

[Burn007]

Ehh...Uh ur not straight then....You are atleast BI....Or even Gay.........I never had something like that....Not even close

[jamesh]

hey Jacob - I TOTALLY get what you're saying, and its a very difficult conflict because there are positives and negatives to both sides of the issue. So... having been dealing with the same issue, my advice is to not over-think it too much. Rather than label yourself, decide what you're looking for and make your mind up based on that. Remember as well that just because you choose to go one way doesn't mean you can't change your mind later either - in fact you probably will! (I have done, repeatedly!). Anyway, good lukc. Happy to chat further if you want.

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality

This is a better section for this thread. You'll get more relevant answers :)

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Honestly, probably just bicuriousity.

[ackmedsgirl666]

you just sound curious to me
since you have indicated that u are only 14 then that makes more sense
i was the same way at that age myself

[Shaka]

Yep, always felt myself feel weird and slightly homophobic even, freaking love and adore girls, but then I realize I'm bi, and that it's just so much social phobias.
I guess look at the greeks, the romans, pretty much most of ancient peoples, most of them were bi. I need to be a man and have a woman and a family (older then you), but I still feel the affection that is healthy toward other men. Just don't estrange your feelings or repress them or whatever, let them melt if you can have them and if you cannot, but dont be afraid of them either. Feelings aren't taught right in schools, but neither is the human condition.

[PrimedPenguin]

I think I'm gonna have to go with the Fbomb here and say your Panasexual or quite even possibly Bi but if you don't like any other guys then I find you being bi or gay quite unlikely. It could possibly be hormones but your feelings are to extreme then again were all different.

[jacob.riley]

thanks everyone!

[Los Angeles89]

I have until now considered myself straight. I love hanging around girls, i love them to death, i find them sexually and emotionally attractive, but then i saw my team mate in the shower. He had a perfect penis and perfect balls, and that made me super horny. i think he is also gay which makes me feel even more excited because i wanna have sex with him or fool around with him. i guess i am emotionally and sexually attracted to him. But i also like girls? Is this just horomones acting up on me, has anyone else experianced this? to be quite honest i hope hes gay so we can go out or something then mess around but then i look at my girl crushes and i think.... what am i doing? im only turning 14 in a month. I think what i really want is to have sex with him. Has any other straight male felt these feelings before? thanks guys! :)

Hey Jacob I have the same thing I have a guy friend that some how attracts me and Iam 13 as well I have no idea if he's gay or str8 ;)

[Seattle-WA-Roxx]

Indeed, Im Having The Same Prob Currently and I am SO Confused. Im going to say Straight, because I think its the Hormones...Its the Hormones for me at least and im 14.

[OntarioKid]

When i was about your age I started to notice other guys my own age. I never did before and I always thought I was straight. Eventually over time Ive moved from mostly liking girls to mostly liking guys. I still like girls but i really like guys

[The_Survivor]

I totally get what you are confused about! I would not label yourself right now, unless you want to say you are "bi-curious".
-Think about if you would actually want to date this guy.
-Experiment. Plain and simple.
-Decide if you are straight, bi or gay.

Hope this helps!

[Avenida105]

I've actually had a bit of a similar conflict this week, I have considered myself straight all my life, and I'm already 17 so never thought something like this could happen. I been emotionally and sexually attracted to 4 girls so far. I'm a very picky person, I look for an actual relation not just someone to fool around with. Anyways I had a dream that I was kissing a friend and he said I love you. Although I freaked out for a couple of days, I came to the conclusion that, hey I wouldn't mind it, maybe I'm bi, maybe I'm just curious but if anything is going to happen I'll let it happen, for life's sake. If its an experience you will have things will open up, if not things will never happen. Consider my advice and do what makes you happy.

[Eth_94123]

I would say you are bi :)

[Shadow]

I think I'm gonna have to go with the Fbomb here and say your Panasexual or quite even possibly Bi but if you don't like any other guys then I find you being bi or gay quite unlikely. It could possibly be hormones but your feelings are to extreme then again were all different.

Pansexual is the sexuality that is based on the idea that gender isn't binary, which it isn't. Pansexual is most comonly used to label people who are sexually and emotionally attracted to transgendered people as well as people that consider themselves to be their born gender. I am just trying to inform you of this, I am not trying to hate on you in any way.

[chezhans]

Yep. Had that experience *weird but yep*, so yes...you might be bi but I wouldn't be open unless you're sure, a little what like Ryan says.

[Ballboy]

Yeah. I totally get this too Jacob. Totally like confusing. Im a bit younger than you and get turned on easily by one particular friend. I've been holding back cos Im afraid I could spoil the friendship.

[Ballboy]

Hey Jacob I have the same thing I have a guy friend that some how attracts me and Iam 13 as well I have no idea if he's gay or str8 ;)

There's a lot of us out there. Helps to know.