how can i help?

[ackmedsgirl666]

so my bestfriend is in an un-stable long distance relationship...... and i feel very bad for him... things were going great for the two of them at first but now all of a sudden things are spiraling downwards. his boyfriend has been sending him texts saying hes gonna kill himself etc etc and then other days(like today) he ignores my friend. my friend is battling severe depression atm... has been cutting... drinking more.. and feening for drugs.... the bad ones..

i dont wanna see my friend get hurt anymore.. i want the cutting to stop... i can see he is in an un-healthy relationship and i wanna help him.. with him being in college and all he keeps having bad dreams and doesnt sleep well... and hes just not the same person anymore...

what can i do to help him.. he doesnt need this amount of shit on his chest.. what can i do to help him possibly fix the relationship before things get so rough my friend takes his life...

i really wanna help my friend

i know he cares about his boyfriend alot.... and he loves him and what not but i hate seeing him like this..... suggestions anybody!!!

[Φρανκομβριτ]

If they love each other, they should both sit down and discuss what their major issues are. And understanding needs to be made that when the threat of suicide is placed, it will not be taken lightly, and you will call an ambulance.

I hate to say this, but if they both have major issues, unless they can miraculously work it out, they'd be better off to take a break and do some work on themselves. You can't expect someone to know you when you don't know yourself!

Hope that helped a little. Shitty situation to be in!

[ackmedsgirl666]

theyre dating eachother long distance and met on the internet
his boyfriend lives in minnesota or something like that. so its kinda had for th

[ackmedsgirl666]

well i hope they work things out. im tired of seeing him like this